Healthy Sex Support Group
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I'm seeing a 59 y o woman who has never masturbated, ever. We don't get together very often. She asked me what I do when we're apart and I admitted to having over 12 gigs of porn stills on my computer and that I watch videos.
She asked if I knew any other woman that never masturbated and I had to say that in my relatively limited experience I didn't know of any, personally. I touched her clitoris and told her "This is your clitoris, or love button, or man in the boat." and I tried to move her hand there but she resisted so I didn't push it. One's never too old to learn new things, right?
She asked if I knew any other woman that never masturbated and I had to say that in my relatively limited experience I didn't know of any, personally. I touched her clitoris and told her "This is your clitoris, or love button, or man in the boat." and I tried to move her hand there but she resisted so I didn't push it. One's never too old to learn new things, right?
But for real, she missed out on a lot of completeness for lack of a better term...
What about foreplay/if you slowly massage her clit and other things that can be done by herself when your not there.
If she allows you to do it, then be gentle & don't talk about her masturbating at all. she'll finger that out on her own in private..
showers together, you wash her love spots.
just Don't talk about masterbation. she'll do it eventualy after you encourage her body to enjoy it,
She may have been raised sex insn't for pleasure for a woman. ?
There was a time many ppl believed it & they still exist,
embarrassed to admit or talk about it. She knows where the parts are that make her cum. You just have to encourage her to use them.
I strongly suspect that she did play with herself when she was very young and was punished for it.
I believe her when she says she has no memory of ever doing it. I questioned her closely about subtle ways such as sitting on your foot and rocking or riding a horse and she insisted she had not done those things, either. (Well she did ride horses but says she didn't get off on it sexually).
@ zigy - There's no question of her "cheating" on me in any way shape or form.
@Daisy - She's definitely not comfortable talking about sex in general but I feel confident she would not flat out lie to my face.
But she might have other wonderful qualities about her. Sex isn't everything...LOL