Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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koolman 02/05/2008

Finding myself glancing at them during my "channel-surfing" sessions in adult bookstore private video booths. They're so bizarre they're strangely intriguing! Looks like a woman, with extremely pretty face, long hair, big boobs, and...you guessed it...a dick and balls! Are these beings genetic? Men in a halfway stage of sex-change operation? Or either? I consider myself a raging heterosexual; I love women in all their sweet splendor, and I've glanced at dudes going at each other during my "channel surfing" sessions and found it disgusting, two hairy, disgusting apes, but these transgenderal beings jerking off I find bizarrely erotic...

Any other dudes agree? C'mon, you can admit it. How 'bout THAT for a sex topic?

deleted_user 02/05/2008

transgendereds feel they are born the wrong sex. a female will try to change into a male, and vice versa. they are not gay. most of the time they abhor the body they are in.

kookman>i believe the correct term is trangenderd female....born male but became female..and transgendered male...fewer of those..but still.

acourious, from what i remember that is about right. they have to be female, for so long before *snip snip* however they can have their adams apple removed, and electrolis...you wouldnt want a 5 oclock shadow....also they can have breasts etc. all before the final surgery. they would have to take large amounts of estrogen to combat the testtostrone

deleted_user 02/05/2008

Holy hell ....... First of all its one thing for a gasl to have a few things done , a little botox around the eyes , or even some liftage in the breast area BUT come on if i wanted a '' blended cocktail '' i would order a drink.... I want my woman ALL 100 % woman.... Glad to see the perv chat got opened in the box too... !!!!!

deleted_user 02/05/2008

I think what Jamie Lee Curtis has or so I heard is that she is a true hermaphrodite... showing both manifestation of male and female genitalia when she was born. Hermaphrodites have both the xx and xy chromosomes...can't change the genotype but they choose their phenotype by surgery or lifestyle.

Now for the she- male, I don't find this erotic at all.

deleted_user 02/05/2008

um..... yeah..... so i think that's kind of gross.

I do have one question though for jbtcarbon (since he seems to know a lot about the subject). If he/she can't get his male part happy then how do they even get an orgasm? and when they do get the female part in place, do they still have orgasms like a real women would?

i don't know i guess i don't know much about this stuff.

deleted_user 02/06/2008

hermphodites....often times the parents will choose the sex of the baby. very rare will one make it to the teens with both parts. Often times, hermphaodites(sp?) willbe infertile...wont have the right pipes for both organs....

in a pre-op tranny, it is possible to get ....happy..it is just harder due to more female hormones, it takes longer...
as far as post-op...i dont know...i quit talking to my friend about 3 months before her final surgery (snip snip)

oh, by the way, she is legally female.

deleted_user 02/06/2008

Yeah, I know a little bit about this too, but jbt has pretty much said everything. I don't feel a certain way about it. Its very confusing to me why God would put a female in a mans body or vice versa. But I try not to judge, just accept.

deleted_user 02/06/2008

I personally don't see the attraction, but I don't judge anyone for feeling any certain way. Different things turn different people on.

It does seem that she-males are becoming more popular...maybe that's not the right word - accepted, perhaps? I've seen a LOT of she-males movies in stores, way more than before, and also there are plenty of websites with she-males. I've seen a magazine out with she-males in it, too. It was kinda pricey. Transformation? I think it's called....or Transgender? I'm not positive.

deleted_user 02/06/2008

transgendered is the formal way of saying it. but they do go through a tansformation...
its all good, either way.

deleted_user 02/06/2008

The show Nip Tuck covered this controversy in a couple of their episodes last year.

deleted_user 02/06/2008

every time i see something like this on one of the shows, CSI, HOUSE, NIP/TUCK...ETC...i get to feeling kind of wierd..I had a unique experience, that most people never will have to deal with...there is a stigma(?) surrounding trannsexuals, that i understand and others dont.

deleted_user 02/06/2008

Absolutely not my thing at all, i like mine to be 110% WOMAN ! But hey, to each their own, live long and prosper, do what you gotta do lol

Tray34 02/06/2008

To be completely honest I find it amazing and it does turn me on.Does that make me weird?

deleted_user 02/06/2008

What's the definition of weird ? lol If that's what you like, who is anyone to judge ?

deleted_user 02/06/2008

One of my friends is a pre-op transexual, she's on the hormones and just waiting for the surgery (don't yet know how long, NHS waiting lists and all that .........)
I've never really asked her about how she's managing the sex in the meantime, I'd probably get a smart-arsed reply :) But she's got a girlfriend atm and they both seem happy together, I'm sure they're figuring something out!

deleted_user 02/06/2008

your friend, male to female, or female to male?

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