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She-Males

koolman
koolman
Finding myself glancing at them during my "channel-surfing" sessions in adult bookstore private video booths. They're so bizarre they're strangely intriguing! Looks like a woman, with extremely pretty face, long hair, big boobs, and...you guessed it...a dick and balls! Are these beings genetic? Men in a halfway stage of sex-change operation? Or either? I consider myself a raging heterosexual; I love women in all their sweet splendor, and I've glanced at dudes going at each other during my "channel surfing" sessions and found it disgusting, two hairy, disgusting apes, but these transgenderal beings jerking off I find bizarrely erotic...

Any other dudes agree? C'mon, you can admit it. How 'bout THAT for a sex topic?
deleted_user
deleted_user
um...er...I don't even know what to say!
deleted_user
deleted_user
koolman i dated a she-male for about a month or two a few years back. "She" was in the middle of having surgeries..she had already had her adams apple removed, and some electrolysis....was taking estrogen, etc....however, no snip snip...but i agree, looks like a girl, smells like a girl, it has to be a girl...

now crossdressers are another story
deleted_user
deleted_user
*blinks*

wow
deleted_user
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some of them find it hard to maintain an erection due to the testostrone levels being off...to much estrogen....but after they have breast inmplants, (after a year or so of taking estrogen, their breasts swell) and they take a more femimine form...its all good
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deleted_user
*cough*
This is a VERY interesting thread! I had NO IDEA!
deleted_user
deleted_user
so, you have breasts, long sexy hair, female shape, no beard( electolysis) no penis, surgicly implanted vagina (no clue) no adams apple....who is to say..that a female born in a males body cant shine through.
deleted_user
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**looking around the room**

c'mon am i the ONLY one who knows anything about this??
deleted_user
deleted_user
Wow, this is definitely a sex topic. Koolman was right on that..

However a person is comfortable is OK with me. If a man wants to be a woman, or a woman wants to be a man, well.. Why not.. Like JBT said, if the Estrogen is too strong in a man, they can't quite help that, and the same if the Testosterone is too strong in a woman.. More power to em..
Don't know if I could find it attractive, but ya never know.. I have yet to be hit on by a man wanting to be a woman.
deleted_user
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Once they know for sure they want to be male or female(hopefully before late 20's, its hard as hell to change a lot after that) they start taking estrogen more and more...to change the shape of the body....they grow thier hair out, (this is for male to female) paint nails and ...transform....the surgeries are expensive.....google it...
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KOOLMAN, ever been with a transgendered female? are you thinking about it?
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oh yeah..i forgot....

I AGREE! over here in the back...ME...YES ME...I AM WAVING AT YOU, AINT I?
Community Leaderacuriousfish
acuriousfish
They are pre-op transexuals or gender resassignments. Outside the porn world I can't help thinking it must be really hard for them, they usually have to live as a woman for 2 years (?) while they take hormones before going off for the final operations.

I don't find them as porn subjects of any interest. But they are often cool people.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I find it more intriguing than anything. My boyfriend finds it erotic and would love to experiment with a transgendered female. He says that is the only way he could ever have sex with someone with male organs, haha.
koolman
koolman
jbt: No, never been with a transgendered female (or is it male-?). I don't really want to touch or suck a dick and balls, but I'm intrigued to watch such a being jerk off...something about the power of a man's squirting climax in a beautiful female body...so these beings are indeed genetically formed, primarily women, and in various stages of sex change, or are they men in the same situation, or does it vary from person to person? I heard Jamie Lee Curtis (actress of Halloween, Trading Places and True Lies fame) indeed had male genetalia at birth, and went in and had done the snip-snip...! And she's gorgeous!
deleted_user
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Well i've watched she-male porn and although at times it was rather disturbing,at times i also could not look away,it kinda left me speechless,didn't know whether it turned me on or off,strange really
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