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Shaved or trimmed or neither

ja0683
ja0683
Ok, I'm sure this has been mentioned before but I would like to ask both the men and women on what they prefer their partner the best.

Women...do you prefer your partner to be shaved, trimmed, or neither in his groin? Why or why not?

Men....do you prefer your partner to be shaved, trimmed, or neither in her groin? Why or why not?

I would love feedback....no wrong answers....let's have a little fun with this.
itson
itson
She doesn't have to shave anymore, I keep it pretty much licked smooth,,,
ashleynicole30
ashleynicole30
for men and women, either trimmed short or shaved.
deleted_user
deleted_user
im shaven and him trimmed
deleted_user
deleted_user
I love chest hair and I especially like chest hair that forms the love line. I like arm and leg hair too. I've never been with a guy that had a hairy back or ass. I would not want him to shave his chest hair and if he had hair on his back or ass, I wouldn't ask him to shave it. If he wanted to that'd be fine but not necessary for me.
satcom66
satcom66
For a number of reasons, I like the women in my life to be shaved or trimmed.

It has really never occured to me to shave or trim myself and no partner of mine has ever brought it up. Do women like men shaved? I guess that's what this thread is about! I'd certainly be willing to do it if my partner like it.
Shai
Shai
I like my husband natural, but if HE wanted to shave it off, wouldn't make me love him any more or any less.

Never heard people say "if a man shaves, he must be gay"...or anything along those lines...

My husband doesn't have hair on his chest, back, or butt...but if he did, I wouldn't ask him to shave it (even if I thought it wasn't attractive).
davex
davex
Shaven. I don't like hair in my mouth. I'm very furry. I shave my head (the big one) and my balls. I normally have 2 to 5 days growth of facial hair.
deleted_user
deleted_user
skin on skin is hot
deleted_user
deleted_user
I trim my chest, shave my balls and trim my pubes close. I love a shaved woman but trimmed is fine too...the shaving is a lot to maintain.
TheAnthemOfTheAngels
TheAnthemOfTheAngels
I shave my groin,legs, and under arms. I get my stomach waxed. I would shave my arms if I wasn't so lazy.

I like my man as hairless as possible and tend to seek out partners that do that. My partner shaves his groin, balls, arms, and his chest and back is hairless (no he's not a kid)

Skin on skin is amaZing and I love giving blow jobs but I'm not sticking my nose in public hair...
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm a man and I prefer my partner to do whatever he wants, because his hair is nice, but I could get at more if it weren't there xD So both ways is good.
deleted_user
deleted_user
nothing could be finer than to see a shaved vagina in the
mo-or-or-ning
nuttin could be sweeter than to wake her up and eater in the
mo-or or-ning
debmitchell
debmitchell
My husband usually just lets it grow wild, but he's been known to trim it. I have no real preference either way, although if he shaved any part of my warm, fuzzy blanket, we might have a fight. He likes me to shave, so I make him help me. I don't think he minds too much...
Autumnal
Autumnal
i like men to be natural, even theyre extra hairy. me i keep myself mostly trimmed but not completely waxed. the funny thing is though, ive been with a few men who have preferred woman who dont shave at all and theyve been the best lovers ever. its like they want the ultimate natural woman, i have felt theyve understood sex and my body better.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I hate hair.... I shave everything except my head! Fortunately I'm blonde so everyday maintenance isn't necessary. I like my man to be well groomed. Hairy guys? Ick.