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Sex positions with a BBW

Recently I had sex with a BBW and it didn't seem to go that well as far as strait sex. I had trouble during insertion. I just couldn't get close enough. I tryed to push her legs up but it seemed to me to be very uncomfortable for her. I probaby should have asked this question before but the only thing I was thinking is "Im going to have sex finaly." It never occured to me that there might be some problems. I am just looking for some positions that are comfortable for both of us.

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deleted_user
deleted_user

DOGGY SYLE
deleted_user
deleted_user

Doggie is usually good.

For missionary, you could also try putting pillows under her butt, which together with holding her legs back might get you a little closer.

Depending on how big she is, you could also try sideways. This can be a little tricky because the bottom leg needs to be bent at the right angle for best depth, so it can take a while to find the right angle. But if she lies on her side, straddle her bottom leg with your legs. Her top leg is bent at 90 degrees. This is also an easy position for bodies to maintain for an extended period of time.

Instead of pillows, you may want to check out the sex pillows at LiberatorShapes.com.
deleted_user
deleted_user

You can also have her on top-rodeo style-or do the edge of the bed thing. You standing with her butt on the edge.
BipolarPrincess
BipolarPrincess

I third the doggy style position......that's always a not so bad easy position to do....
deleted_user
deleted_user

I would have to agree with the others on this...doggie would be the best.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Maybe your penis is too small.
flutterbyfly
flutterbyfly

Sounds to me like you really didn't want to have sex with a BBW, but did b/c you were desperated. Now, isn't that just a slap in the face?
deleted_user
deleted_user

I agree flutterby, this post kind of ticked me off.
LisaACOA
LisaACOA

I have to agree with kevmar and Flutter... I think this post was very insensitive. I am heavier than most of the women on here. I have never had a problem. I can still put my feet around a guys neck. I love being on top, doggie, and lots of others positions. I think if you try being more sensitive you might have better luck.
deleted_user
deleted_user

I can't speak to his movitivation or intentions. Part of the issue could be what does BBW mean? For some, BBW means > size 10.

But I am a guy who likes bigger women. And yes, I haven't had a problem with size per se.

But I have been with some women who were really big, and we did have some issues with insertion. We were able to work things out, but I do feel a women like that would be better off with a well endowed male. (LOL, I'm thinking most women would be better off with a well endowed male, however, I am only in the average class)

However, if a different post he mentions his GF is pretty big, and he is relatively short statured with a physical disability. So I'm of the opinion this is a question with positive intentions.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Damn you ask a seriouse question and insted of people helping they jump your shit. First off I have been discrimanated and made fun off all my life for being short and disables so as far as being insensative I was not. Its better to be direct and honest then tip toe around the subject. Seconly we talked on the phone every night for 2 months at least 5 hours a night getting to know one another. Then I drove 300 miles to see her. So yes I did want to have sex with her and I still do. Third I can hold my penis like a baseball bat and not piss on any of my fingers. And finaly yes it was my first time. She knew it, I knew it , every one knew it so I don't know a hole lot accept for what I have see in adult moves and as we should all know thoes are not real. They are moveis. So if you think I was being over sensative to puting her in a painfull or aquard position then you should say so.
LisaACOA
LisaACOA

Nathanial, I am sorry I took it that way. I sincerely apologize, I hope you will forgive me.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Well, I'm 5'8" and 255lbs (size 20 jeans) and I've not really found a sex position I couldn't do. I think it helps that I do yoga though.. I'm more flexible than most of my more slender friends so maybe I don't have a really good grasp of some of the problems that other BBW have. Maybe.. standing up with one leg propped on a chair or something and bent over. Or, as others have said, doggie style. You could always try watching some BBW porn and see what positions they use.

I think some people are being a little sensitive here. Your post didn't offend me at all. Don't take it to heart.
deleted_user
deleted_user

If you are going to be sleeping with her regularly, just give it time and you will figure it out together. Sometimes, thinking about it too much can just make things worse. Doggy style seems like a good choice. A friend of mine that is a little bigger than me, as well as her bf..that seems to be the best for them. Like others have said, I am capable of most positions (in regards to my weight) but other factors kinda get in the way of most positions, so I'm not much help. It's just something you learn with practice.
flutterbyfly
flutterbyfly

Nathanial - I guess it was just the way you worded it. I would not have been offended had it been asked differently.