Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
OK , on the bang-o-meter of 10 being bouncing each other off the wall and
1 being handled like a baby bird, how "rough " do you like your sex ?
I'm about a 7 but my girlfriend is about a 3 . When I do something physical
like lifting weights , I want to do it harder..not enough to hurt of course, but just more animalistic.Maybe it stimulates testosterone or maybe it's just a
mental extension of my physical activity. I definitely have to control myself or my girlfriend doesn't like it. I wanted to find out how other people prefer their sex ?
1 being handled like a baby bird, how "rough " do you like your sex ?
I'm about a 7 but my girlfriend is about a 3 . When I do something physical
like lifting weights , I want to do it harder..not enough to hurt of course, but just more animalistic.Maybe it stimulates testosterone or maybe it's just a
mental extension of my physical activity. I definitely have to control myself or my girlfriend doesn't like it. I wanted to find out how other people prefer their sex ?
Cab, I think there are lots of women who would be very much into intense and passionate. It can be very hard to get into the rough mindset given what you've witnessed in your life.
ArielAngel, while I wouldn't say that I love pain, I empathize with what you said about how your partner is afraid to hurt you. It's frustrating to ask for "more" and then not get it.
I absolutely love being between pain and pleasure, marks (bite marks, hand prints, bruises...etc) are all good with me. I'm for sure more of a sub in the bedroom so I enjoy being controlled/dominated.