Glad to know that I am not the only one here who has a horrible sex life, lack of sex drive, etc. well I'm only 26....... i have never told this to anyone else before at all so now i guess i will tell a bunch of strangers on a support group website. I have NEVER had an orgasam. EVER. sometimes I can go for months with no sexual drive, libido, or what ever you call it.
I am married to a great guy who tries to be supportive of my issues but I can tell that it gets to him sometimes. He has his own worries too; like ed at a very young age. So that adds a lot of "blahness" to the sexual table too. Most of the time its like I can tell there is something going on down there but can't feel anything at all??? like somebody rubed numming lube on me or something. I even have fallen alseep durring it?? I have only ever had sex with one partner, my hubby, and I am the only person he has ever been with. So we are not very "practiced" you can say. But I would think after 5 yrs something would give.
We have tried all kinds of positons and we are limited on them thanks to the pain from chronic ovarian cyst and other health issues. And we can never seem to get on the same page; like when I'm FINALLY enjoying it, he goes "flat" in the middle of it, but most every other time, I'm haveing to fake that I'm even enjoying it, just so he can hurry up and get off me. I'm so scatter brained during sex too. I'm trying and trying to go " ok, be in the mood and pray you feel something, anything" and then.... nothing yet again. UGH SO ANNOYING!! ok so that was really emabarassing. please be nice . Like I said I have never ever shared any of this before. thank you.