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ShivIT
ShivIT
My husband and I are thinking about having a threesome with another woman. It actually mostly for me because I'am bi-curious and he would love to watch or possibly join. Only touching me though.
Has anyone done this before and how did it affect your marriage?
deleted_user
deleted_user
But if you truly are a "big guy" it might be hard to find a tennis skirt to fit you - :-)
goodtotalk
goodtotalk
i agree - it is something i have thought about in fantasy but in reality i know i would end up being jealous. i most likely couldnt help but think he was looking at her more than me , etc. i like your idea of trying other ways to spice it up as that can be necesary after years with the same person. try talking dirty, new positions, having sex in different rooms of the house other than your bedroom, porn, toys, and/or talking. youd be amazed where the conversation can lead to when you talk about sex, likes, dislikes, fantasies, etc. good luck and have fun. its good you both are commited to working at and enjoying your marriage.
bigguy3
bigguy3
"But if you truly are a "big guy" it might be hard to find a tennis skirt to fit you - :-)"

Hey, if she wanted me to wear a tennis skirt to spice things up in the bedroom, I'm sure I'd find one that fits. ;-)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Not when married .................but I was in a open relationship with another man but not for women but men to join. We did it for 10 years .................on occasion..............and I have also been engaged to a woman and had occasional MMF 3somes then to. It worked..........the sex was never the problem in either relationship.