Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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koolman 04/02/2008

Emotional and financial security, folks. If you had a choice, which would you prefer? I'd like both, but it seems, to have one I gotta have the other. When I'm struggling financially, I find it very difficult to relax and get an erection when I'm scared about not having enough dough to pay the bills. And, when the money's there, I'm afraid of someone leeching off my dough and taking it all away! Perhaps I need a career that I'm passionate about instead of sporadic free-lance gigs, and then meet someone in that career...hmmm?

deleted_user 04/02/2008

yes babe I know that financial struggles can reek havoc on your sex life... I hope u find something good soon in and out of the bedroom...

koolman 04/02/2008

Thanks, beybey. Usually my free-lance biz is pretty good this time of year, but we've got this recession goin' on...don't want to get a steady job because, without mondo training (and thus student loans), jobs in South Florida pay shit. I'll call the temp agencies on Friday and tell 'em I'm available the next couple of weeks...pays shit but better than nothing, and it's only temprorary, so when the free-lance stuff picks up again, I'll be finished with the temp assignment. Thanks and Cheers!

deleted_user 04/02/2008

Hey Kool, Can I ask you a personal question?

deleted_user 04/02/2008

I need both. I'm too old to worry about paying my bills and I can't be with anyone without forming an emotional attachment.

deleted_user 04/02/2008

Ideally, both. My life isn't ideal right now though.

deleted_user 04/02/2008

SEX

koolman 04/02/2008

Sure, Kristen, fire away!

deleted_user 04/02/2008

How often, honestly, do you think about sex or sexual things?

koolman 04/02/2008

All the time when I'm around beautiful women! When I'm not, maybe three times a week.

koolman 04/02/2008

I'm usually working weekends, so I have a lot of time to hole up in my condo like a hermit. I go to the beach, parks or bars in my travels on my bicycle, to feel God's bliss (and surround myself with beautiful women).

koolman 04/02/2008

And (ahem)...why do you ask, Kristen?

deleted_user 04/02/2008

And how often do you have sex?

I know its personal but im just curious!

koolman 04/02/2008

Masturbate? Three times a week, maybe at least once a day if I've been working around hot women all day. Sex with another? Haven't gotten lucky in 2 years, but, then again, I've been focusing on making money more than trying to get into the ladies' pants...maybe I should be pursuing both with equal fervor-? I'm not Brad Pitt, but I'm not Steve Buscemi either, and I've got a pretty good, hunky build...whaddya think?

koolman 04/02/2008

Why, Kristen, are you interested LOL? Live in South Florida like me? I could get into ya...LOL

deleted_user 04/02/2008

That explains alot.

I have just never heard a man talk about sexual stuff, or sex as much as you do.

But if you havent had sex in 2 years, that explains EVERYTHING.

I was just curious!

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