Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
DO YOU AND YOUR PARTNER USE A SAFE WORD FOR WHEN THE PLEASURE OR PAIN IS TOO INTENSE, AND WHAT IS IT?
GZUSthug
MINE IS "FLOWERS" BECAUSE THERE IS NO WAY I'D SAY FLOWERS IN A MOMENT OF ECXTASY.
deleted_user
mine is pasta....for the same reason yours is flowers.
acuriousfish
if it's someone new to the game I suggest the traffic light system. If it's not it's whatever safe word they are used to.
GZUSthug
REDLIGHT...IT COULD WORK.
acuriousfish
amber..slow down..red stop!! green for god's sake keep going.
deleted_user
kaykay's is "if you do that again I'll kick your ass" that seems to stop me in my tracks, works for her...LOL
GZUSthug
RON, WHAT DID YOU DO TO GET THAT REACTION? JUST CURIOUS, BUT THAT'S TOO FUNNY.
deleted_user
lets just say it's exit only...LOL
deleted_user
OK I was seriously thinking until Ron started talking that was too funny!
deleted_user
just kidding..LOL
deleted_user
hahaha! Ron too funny!
deleted_user
for us it's just safer if we don't have or need a safe word... that way I'm safe
deleted_user
on second thought maybe close ups should be a safe word...LOL
deleted_user
We dont have a safe word...I just give him "the look".
deleted_user
oohh yeah I'm familiar with "the look" kaykay gives it too me all the time
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