Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
i have a VERY good sexual appetite always have except after having my daughter that pretty much killed it for awhile but im back and horny as ever. me and my fiance used to have sex at least 5 times a week sometimes 3-or more times a day the sex we have is fantastic. my problem is im freakier than i let on. there are many things i would like us to try and i know he would be down to do them as well, but when i show a glimpse of my freakiness he gets all freaked out like i some nympho who will fuck anything that looks at me which is totally untrue i have never even looked at another man that way in the ten years we've been together i only have eyes for him and am completely satisfied sexually. so i restrain my sexual desires in order to pacify his insecurities. how do i go about getting him over this? we could have a better time and expand our sexual experiences if he could just get past this
Let him know that you want all these things with him and just him, not anybody else because he makes you feel free to express yourself and that the more freaky you are together the greater your intimate connection will become.
PS: You are discovering a key point about sexual risk taking, the more you push the boundries the greater the feeling of connection.
If you can pull this off you are both in for the most incredible sex you ever imagined because once you open up to each other in this way you will push each other much futher than you expected.