But you can climax right? This isn't an all the time thing? Also, are you just wanting to climax with him? Sorry, I'm dumb! lol Just not sure exactly what you're asking for. Thanks!

~~~KRAZYKATT TO ME (she gave me her permission to post)

hi thanks for responding to my topic. I usually use vibrator when i am alone to climax, sometimes use lipstick vibrator while having sex. which i had one last night. vaginal intercourse feels different than clitoral orgasm with vibrator. I just couldn't get my muscles to squeeze hard enought and hit my clit hard enough and fast enough to come hard

Sometimes we become desensitized by vibrator stimulation which makes it harder to peek during intercourse. Also, it might help to have him communicate when he's going to cum, and prolong him. ie You get off of him, and he plays with you awhile before you go at it again.

Does he tend to last a short period of time? I was with someone once who was so turned on by what he called my kinkiness with toys that he couldn't last as long when they were involved. So, we decided to just have him use the toys on me pre intercourse so I could cum, and then we'd continue on until he climaxed. It actually worked well that way because once I cum the first time I can keep going and going especially if my partners about to blow!

Yes, Katt, theres a big difference between a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal one.

Do you have any toys that you fuck yourself with... not just play with clit with? Toys have helped me so much in learning to do/have sex better.

I know one thing that has helped me is learning to use your PC muscles. They are the muscles you basically hold pee in with. Anytime of the day, do sets of PC contractions.... hold in for 5 secs, let go for 5 secs. That will strengthen them. And better to use for sex, my dear!

Also, you might want to consider taking a break from the clit vibrator. I got to the point where I couldn't orgasm w/o using my biggest, badest toy. It was insane. So, I took a few weeks off, and just started using my fingers and a dildo. I worked it back up until I came just as good with those.

Have you thought of new positions? There are ones where you will be able to feel it better too. Orgasm and cum better.

Anyways, just some thoughts. These may or may not help. Keep me updated honey! xx

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First make sure his nails are clipped. When you are on top ridding him, have him rub your special spot with his thumb, or bewtween his first and second fingers. Again, no finger nails though.