i wear sports bras a lot when i wear tee-shirts. the older i get, the more i hate "real" bras.

Well I have a 36A cup here so not one ounce of cleavage for this gal.

I'm very jealous of you non-cleavage ladies.

Lol @ "what's a cleavage?"

I'm a 30B. While they're small, my frame is tiny, too, so with the right bra, I can manage some cleavage. But my husband... disapproves... of me wearing a bra around the house.

deb-------i WISH that was my husband. he couple years ago he told me he wanted me to start wearing a bra as much as possible for "preventative maintenance."

Around the house, I wear no bra or sports bras. When I am not wearing one at home I am wearing a tank that has a built in shelf bra. Depending on where I am going I am comfortable going out like that. Otherwise, if I am wearing laomething lower cut (which is many of my shirts), yes, sometimes people notice. Although, I don't always notice when they do. It really doesn't bother me, I have large breasts, so I guess it just comes with the territory.

I am with Viv, the minimizers are nice when wearing button ups, I would hate to take somebody's eye out with a flying button. LOL

i wish i had big boob issues. i hate my tiny boobs. i wish i could even tolerate the thought of breast implants.

Des- sOme implants aren't as bad as you think. You can't even feel mine, you seriously have to do some major probing to find them. I do have a fair amount of breast tissue that covers them so that works in my favor but the implants that I have were not filled until about two weeks after surgery so I got to pick how full they are and knew how they would feel as they were being filled. I think many surgeons fill to the max so many times they can feel overinflated.

i have looked into implants numerous, numerous times. the only way i would even come close to considering them is if they were BEHIND the muscle. but even then, i dont know if i could handle it. I think mentally it would mess with me though. Right now, despite them being small, i enjoy feeling my boobs. With implants, i dont think i would ever want to touch them again and mentally i think it would mess with me that if someone was looking at my boobs or touching them that they were attracted to "me", but a plastic insert.

Lol! I totally get it! It actually creeped me out at first. Yes, mine are behind the muscle. Good thing is if my body is ever found somewhere, they will be able to identify me by my serial numbers. Lol!

It does increase.

Though I've never been a big "cleavage" shower. I have been blessed and just wearing a tight fitting top next to a baggy tshirt does bring me more looks. I'm just used to it though.

I think it's human nature. If your showing the girls off, no matter how big or little, they're going to attract attention.