Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
You can buy Chux, they're those blue hospital bed protectors and put them under your sheets. They come in disposable or washable. You can buy them on-line and some pharmacies that carry medical supplies have them.
Then, have a mop handy. "Cleanup on aisle five..."
For me it depends on the position we're in with whatever we're doing and also my mind. If I was stressed, anxious or really tired for some reason that day, chances are it will not happen if we have sex that day or night. I'll still have orgasms but not FE. I need to have a very clear mind and be totally relaxed for it to happen.
Also if I feel pressured to make it happen because he's trying to hard to make it happen, it's not going to work. I had to get that clear with him not to try to force it to happen, just let it happen. If it does great, if it doesn't, that's not a problem and it's no reflection on his sexual abilities at all.