Yeah Daisy, when I'm not depressed about my divorce I sometimes remember that I enjoy being silly. Haha! Guess I am having a good day!

Racinggirl. I love when he actually comes too. It is an accomplishment, and I find it flattering that I can still get the same reactions from him. I just need the hair pulled or something as a warning. : )

Cab,

Not to hijack the thread but you have a great sense of humor. I am so sorry you are so sad about getting divorced. Believe it or not time does heal and you will get thru this and you will be okay. But it takes time. Be patient with yourself. One day you will find someone that will appreciate you for the great guy that you are and you will live happily ever after. Fairy tales do exist. (((HUGS)))

Ok not to sound like a total idiot, but is it a lot different when he cums while you're deep throating him vs just giving him a BJ? I can't really deep throat, not that I've ever had any complaints as guys like my technique regardless. I'm sort of with racinggirl on this one....isn't the point to make him cum? Why is it a surprise?

Men feel the same way when giving women an orgasm. It's a 'job well done'. :-)

I think it is about making the person that you care about feel good. However you want to do that. If that involves oral then fine. If a person doesn't want to do that then that is okay too. It is whatever a person is comfortable doing and whatever 2 people are comfortable doing together. Just my 2 cents for whatever it is worth. :)

My thought process on the whole thing ismore deep throating please! Hair pulling is a sure fire way to let her know that you are about to rock her (mouth) world and knowing the signs when he is going to cum is also very important.

Not enough girls deep throat but for me it's the sense that sometimes when I'm giving oral it takes longer for her to orgasm and so my mouth and tongue get tired but I keep at it because there is nothing better than enjoying a moment of pleasure that you caused your significant other to have. Sex is a great way to share moments together and get to know someone much more intimately and communicatively as well.

COMMUNICATION IS KEY HERE. Can't spell Communication without cum :)

For those of you that don't like to swallow; try it when you have a sore throat. It is THE BEST sore throat remedy ever!! It takes away that scratchy sore throat feeling for about 2 hours.

^^^^ lmao! Also, try having him eat (or u if u want to be even more sweet) the Edie's fruit bar Popsicles ( pineapple). They are so good & only 70 calories. They will make him super sweet, so that if u didn't like the taste before, its nice & sweet. I personally dont mind the taste & have never spit before. I actually love the smell too, gets me going. ;) this poses a problem when there are chestnut trees around though... Lol

wait a minute.,. men's cum smells like chestnut trees?! I need to grow one in the middle of my apartment so she is ALWAYS ready to get down with me! I'll find a way to mask the smell for my own self of course haha.

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Racing girl.....yup, me too!! Feel like just won a prize;)

Cab.....I can relate. I went through a very painful separation that I didn't see coming after 20 years together. It's almost been a year since I found out about the affair, the divorce is final next week.
It wasn't easy. If you need to chat....PM me. I'm so very sorry.

Debra

Silentlies... Yeah, to me it does. Lol oh & the fruit bars are called outshine. Mmmmmm.

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