Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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Kevin5jm 10/13/2007

I gotta be honest, not ready for a relationship, but I REALLY want to find a great woman who can be best friends with me and who we can "hook up" and "take care" of each others needs...I'm loyal, honest, caring an incredible lover and I need some good friends!! ANY TAKERS?? ha ha ha ha ha (sort of kidding!!)

deleted_user 10/14/2007

That's pretty much what I was thinking. If he's into it..good. If not.. that's good too. Don't want to get involved with him if he can't handle it. Thanks for the advice!

deleted_user 10/14/2007

EXACTLY. If it isn't CLEAR from the start, and accepted by both parties...then do NOT continue!!!!

deleted_user 10/14/2007

I agree with confused: NO FEELINGS. The last thing you need is a goddam stalker on your hands.

deleted_user 10/14/2007

Definitely don't want one of those.lol

deleted_user 10/14/2007

I have been there .. and .. it was great for a while ..

Eventually .. she fell 4 me .. maybe she did all along .. don't know ..

Once I knew she had different feelings than I had .. I had to end it ..

It can work .. if U R both on the same page ..

deleted_user 10/14/2007

again...CLARIFY CLARIFY CLARIFY.

If you even START to think there's "something" make SURE you bring it up!!!!

deleted_user 10/14/2007

"friend" with "benefits"? I'd typically classify that as a partner or significant other...but that's just me, despite knowing what the term generally implies/means. In theory, "friends with benefits" would be ideal as long as you don't mind if they have other "friends" with whom they share those benefits with....jealousy can be a "mother"....

deleted_user 10/29/2007

That sounds like a good plan to me.I had one but she moved away.Trying to find anouther.The last one was a hotty.

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