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OK...friends with benefits...

Kevin5jm
Kevin5jm
I gotta be honest, not ready for a relationship, but I REALLY want to find a great woman who can be best friends with me and who we can "hook up" and "take care" of each others needs...I'm loyal, honest, caring an incredible lover and I need some good friends!! ANY TAKERS?? ha ha ha ha ha (sort of kidding!!)
deleted_user
deleted_user
SOLD!
deleted_user
deleted_user
nooooooo, i say we have an auction... i bid $1K
deleted_user
deleted_user
I've not had a "friend with benefits" for a very long time.

Lets see, I can offer the following....reasonably cute, an amazing rack, stunning in bed, no emotional attachment, and creativity and imagination that would BLOW someone's mind....

Any takers?
Kevin5jm
Kevin5jm
sold!!!!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Unfortunately, the commute sucks.
deleted_user
deleted_user
D***tease.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh there are so many things I am, but a tease is not one of them.

I NEVER say anything I don't mean, or won't follow through on.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Just for the record, ALC, I think you mentioned "rusty trombone" at one point...
deleted_user
deleted_user
Time and place baby...

I can play an instrument like nobody's business.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hope you got a good set of lungs, honey...
deleted_user
deleted_user
nobody's asked for their money back yet....
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm not a taker..but I can definitely understand where your coming from with this. That's the situation I'm in now. I don't want a relationship (emotionally not ready) but I do have "needs" that I know have to be met. The only thing that really bothers me about the whole thing is how do I tell my partner that. I just met someone today and I'm thinking to myself.."How do I say it without sounding like I want to use him or be a wh***?
deleted_user
deleted_user
hmm..where does your partner think your "relationship" is right now?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think he wants someone to date..but I don't want that. We can "hook up" but that's it. Not like a one night stand but not a "relationship" either. Really, he doesn't seem like the type of person who could understand something like that. But I just met him..so I can't really say.?.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Make it clear from the start if it's for FUN and for NO STRINGS. No need to have one or the other develop an attachment for the other.
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