Healthy Sex Support Group
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Oh dear oh dear oh dear!
Hate to be a prude, but if I had kids I wouldn't want that kind of thing going on around a residential area, so I can see why some of the neighbours complained.
But if it was going on in a private venue, no danger of under-18's seeing anything, then that would have been different.
I had to laugh at the way the story was reported though, especially the part about whipped cream being banned. Just seemed a bit surreal to me.
I have no problem with legal strippers and prostitutes. It happens anyway why no legalize it, tax it and save some money from the police trying to stop it.
But out in the open, no.
Just as I get to choose my sexuality and what I like, I expect my kids that same right when they are adults. I do not want it forced upon them because someone thinks it is their right to walk around nude or fuck in the park my kid plays in.
So legal in adult establishments yes, I am for that.
I suppose in public it might be a problem, so yeah if kids are around, I guess it would be bad, although many kids attend nudist colonies and have no problems, in fact they are better adjusted than most kids who are sheltered, told that nudity is bad, and made to be ashamed of the human body.
...i dont mind nudity but this is not about nudity it is about sexual thrills.................
Not that I'm against all porn or strip bars in their place - I don't really mind if adults want to look at that to get their kicks, just as long as they *know* that it's not real life.
But I do agree with you, at an adults-only event if people want to get naked then that should be entirely their choice.
..I think it's real sad that some people really need to have this in their lives and I feel sorry for the women who do this who objectify and use their bodies instead of their brains.....if men did it too..i would still feel the same way....................
...i dont mind nudity but this is not about nudity it is about sexual thrills.................
Well Luci, as long as sex sells it is going to "sell" and for some it is an easy way to make money. I have a friend who was a stripper and nude dancer for years. She made a lot of money, unfortunately she went through it like water through a sieve.
As long as there are men, they are going to want to see naked women, and as long as men want to see naked women, there are women who are going to oblige for a price.
One of the reasons these places pop up is because of the restrictions placed on nudity. I wager if nudity was legal as long as it was in a "closed" venue, then there would be no need to have them out in public. As it is, there are so many restrictions that it is only natural that they are going to pop up here and there. There are adult places but most have so many rules and restrictions it is stupid.
I wish our society would make clothing optional. Especially in the summer...but I dont see that happening cause we sexualize and objectify the human body to much.
and yes..we do all prostitute ourselves in one way or another........and we use what we have to a certain degree....but i think its about keeping it all in limits..........