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Gzus good question man !!

Gzus....i think you are one of the nice ones! I wouldnt have said YES if i didnt! lol
Creepy is everything these ladies said before me and also when an older man old enough to be my dad messages me and asks me to sit on his face! lol

i think its a hard thing to distinguish between bc someone get freaked out if the man is to nice or not nice enough...for me its its a gut feeling

I think what makes this a truly difficult issue is that some people will call many many guys "creepy" even those that really aren't, and then others may not perceive as quickly when a guy actually is a creep.

Could it be that one way to avoid being creepy is "make them want more from you". Don't call so much, never smother, I don't know, I'm just guessing. That's a tough issue.

To me, 'creepy' is when a guy seems like he's pretending to be something he's not.
I'd rather see someone be himself and say what he really thinks than just whatever he thinks is supposed to impress me.

It's not really what you say it's your tone, and body language. lol
one guy can walk up to me and say u r very beautiful and i would be flattered, but there are some that will say the same thing but give me a whole other feeling inside. lol

nice guy= invites you over to his place for a drink,it's clean tidy you sit on couch have a drink and he shows you pictures of his family and talks to you. A week later just before Christmas he gives you some very nice perfume and expects nothing back.

creepy = goes online after you've just finished having sex and shows you pictures of women having sex with dogs and horses

now I ask, how can that come from the same guy? I guess he's a nice creepy freaky dude

Gzus, you are sooo not creepy! look at your sweet face! lol ;)

Squirter, that really ties into the frustration that guys feel. B/c some guys have little or no awareness of their body language. So the "nice guy" with little awareness of body language is someone you might think is a "CREEP", and the guy that has "his moves down pat" knows not only what to say but how to say it might be considered the nice person.
Again, this is a tough topic to make sense of.

& Aislyn, I love the difference you show between the 2 guys. But there's many many guys in the middle from the 2 types that you describe.

A nice guy is someone who wants to get to know you not just the physical you. He will make you feel comfortable no matter the situation, and like alot of girls have said alot of times it is a gut instinct.

A creep is someone who is so full of himself that he thinks all women want him. Someone who is cocky and assumes that you should jump at the chance to be with him. Also someone who is overly touchy, I have issues with this due to my molestation and rapes.

Lord knows with my size and appearance that most women find me intimidating (not sure i'd say CREEPY lol) ,until they get to know me and realize that i'm really a very nice guy :)

I knew my gf as a business relationship for some time before we got personal and she said as much as she agreed that my size was a shocker to her, she also found me very attractive and was so happy when fate brought me the her bank on her LAST day and i finally got up the nerve to ask for her number! lol And to be honest, i was just as shocked that she gave it to me lol

You don't creep me out baby!

Hell if I know for God's sake look at my past with the guys I've gone out with!

we missed you cb