Healthy Sex Support Group
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So I have been pretty good finding girlfriends since my divorce. Some wanted to get married, others just wanted to have fun. But I need to step back from relationships so I can focus on work and get me to a better place. Problem is, I like sex and I like having a woman around. It's just sometimes they are just so damn much trouble.
So what do you think about paying a girl ? Someone I can call when I am in the mood or just need a little physical contact? I will practice safe sex, so don't use that as a reason not to.
I can see lots of benefits ,,, She can be way younger than anyone I would expect to date at my age. Soft, firm skin, tight little butt ...
That's a really good reason ...
Anyway, she wouldn't call me for a ride or need money to turn her phone on. I wouldn't have to go to chick flick movies or work in the garden when I don't feel like it. I won't get those piercing stares from across the room when I don't give a shit about who is backstabbing who at her office.And I can tell her what I want her to wear and she will do it.
As you may tell, I am thinking about a recurring arrangement. All the fun I want and the only thing I have to do is not run out of money. :)
I am seriously considering this and I hope you fun, kinky, very sexy, open-minded people would give your opinion.
So what do you think about paying a girl ? Someone I can call when I am in the mood or just need a little physical contact? I will practice safe sex, so don't use that as a reason not to.
I can see lots of benefits ,,, She can be way younger than anyone I would expect to date at my age. Soft, firm skin, tight little butt ...
That's a really good reason ...
Anyway, she wouldn't call me for a ride or need money to turn her phone on. I wouldn't have to go to chick flick movies or work in the garden when I don't feel like it. I won't get those piercing stares from across the room when I don't give a shit about who is backstabbing who at her office.And I can tell her what I want her to wear and she will do it.
As you may tell, I am thinking about a recurring arrangement. All the fun I want and the only thing I have to do is not run out of money. :)
I am seriously considering this and I hope you fun, kinky, very sexy, open-minded people would give your opinion.
how much we talkin here???
So today a girl came over and gave me a massage with benefits. Then another girl came over and cleaned my house. I am happy at the moment. Who knows how I will feel later but it is fulfilling my needs right now. After I work on me and get to where I am happy being me, and think I want to look for my twinflame (a very smart person told me about that), maybe I will stop this and be a normal steak eating, gift-buying chivalrous human being. Right now, I am just doing what makes me get through today.
Reveal ... not that much!
However, if I wanted to pay someone to do basicly the same thing, only in a pleasurable way, it is then considered illegal.
It's ok to pay for a massage for pleasure, but not sex.
I know all the dark and dangerous things that go on in the world of prostitution. This is just one aspect I find interesting about what we can or cannot do with our own bodies with respect to the law.
I also have an ex fwb starting to come back around so that may make everyone happy. That would be nice. It isnt easy finding a woman to have a fwb relationship.
And guys, I am not usually so out of control. I have beautiful kids, all in college, and have a great relationship with my ex. We live near each other and i didnt have to pay alimony and we never did a property settlement. How's that for freaky?
Mine won't leave me alone until I am dead.
There are men who don't like fwb either.. They get to possessive.