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So I have been pretty good finding girlfriends since my divorce. Some wanted to get married, others just wanted to have fun. But I need to step back from relationships so I can focus on work and get me to a better place. Problem is, I like sex and I like having a woman around. It's just sometimes they are just so damn much trouble.
So what do you think about paying a girl ? Someone I can call when I am in the mood or just need a little physical contact? I will practice safe sex, so don't use that as a reason not to.
I can see lots of benefits ,,, She can be way younger than anyone I would expect to date at my age. Soft, firm skin, tight little butt ...
That's a really good reason ...
Anyway, she wouldn't call me for a ride or need money to turn her phone on. I wouldn't have to go to chick flick movies or work in the garden when I don't feel like it. I won't get those piercing stares from across the room when I don't give a shit about who is backstabbing who at her office.And I can tell her what I want her to wear and she will do it.
As you may tell, I am thinking about a recurring arrangement. All the fun I want and the only thing I have to do is not run out of money. :)
I am seriously considering this and I hope you fun, kinky, very sexy, open-minded people would give your opinion.
So what do you think about paying a girl ? Someone I can call when I am in the mood or just need a little physical contact? I will practice safe sex, so don't use that as a reason not to.
I can see lots of benefits ,,, She can be way younger than anyone I would expect to date at my age. Soft, firm skin, tight little butt ...
That's a really good reason ...
Anyway, she wouldn't call me for a ride or need money to turn her phone on. I wouldn't have to go to chick flick movies or work in the garden when I don't feel like it. I won't get those piercing stares from across the room when I don't give a shit about who is backstabbing who at her office.And I can tell her what I want her to wear and she will do it.
As you may tell, I am thinking about a recurring arrangement. All the fun I want and the only thing I have to do is not run out of money. :)
I am seriously considering this and I hope you fun, kinky, very sexy, open-minded people would give your opinion.
did i miss something?
no, i dont believe that hiring a hooker is going to fill the void for you..
try Jesus?
Perhaps a friends with benifiets might work for you?
I did once threaton my now ex wife with a hooker. my reason was that at least for a half hour or so she would pretend to like me.
Eventually, (after my ex left) I just did the dating site thing and found lots of nice ladies who found me interesting enough to want to spend some time with. i was truly surprised at how many ladies are out there who just want a little companionship and fun now and then.
Good luck mate.
Mick
As you can see, I don't find prostitution a good thing whether it be a male or female selling themselves. In my own take on it, I feel that it is abusive and explotitive .
But if it makes you feel good then go for it as it is not an illegal practice and it is the oldest profession in the world xo.
and congrats on getting a free lay
In practice I see some show-stopping-problems with it.
The first, and biggest for you, personally, are STD's. WAY TOO DANGEROUS.
secondly, I would have issues using a prostitute. I would feel badly for me, that I would need to PAY a woman to have sex with me... and the woman's pleasure is important to me, so I don't see that working either.
Lastly, many women are coerced, desperate, or outright forced into that life, and I would really worry that I was taking advantage of a poor, desperate woman with no other real options that she is aware of.
What about finding a woman looking for the same thing. Plenty of women out there looking for a hookup on occasion, that say very similar things as you do.
Just throwing a different perspective out there for you. Not accusing or attacking just looking at this from a different angle. And I'd definitely agree that I'd feel bad about myself if I had to go to that level to get some. Might as well buy a blow up doll. Hey! Ever consider a blow up doll? :)