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Making Love

heyvee
heyvee
Have any of you really, truly made love?
I miss it :(
deleted_user
deleted_user
Bubba,

Amen! I agree.

Making love is not just about sex and or intercourse. Making love is how you treat your partner all the time. Being intimate is a state of mind and making an emotional connection.

Just about to tell you that more men should think like you do.

Woo-hooo! :) Great post!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Just use a vibrator if you're horny just do it man I want it too but hell any takers lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yes. I might wish I could have sex more often. But I've been blessed with an awesome guy! It's great making love with someone you Love and Loves you and cares how you feel. Sure. There are times when it's just a quiky, but but then there are times when you can have such a deep connection!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Twister,

What the heck? LOL
ggarrett
ggarrett
yes, it has been awhile.....
SheByTheSea
SheByTheSea
I completely agree with the sentiment that sex is about pleasing yourself and making love is about pleasing your partner. I think its sad that many people don't know the difference. When you find that partner who wants to please you, and you in turn want to please them, its so much better than just sex. I don't think I ever want to go back to that.
Silentlies25
Silentlies25
I believe like everyone else that making love is a state of mind but it's the minds of the two together that really make it love. If one of the two of you are not doing it out of love than it becomes a for pleasure moment and in that instance it's just for pleasure and satisfaction. I believe that You can have both making love and for pleasure in the instance because when you are making love you are interested in making sure that the other individual is pleased with the situation just as much if not completely 100% more than you are. It's a cad elf how much do you care for this person, how much do you want to show you care and how to do so. I believe 100% in love and making love is the best feeling ever. I'm engaged and if we didn't make love every time we had sex than I would know it's not true love. Granted it doesn't have to be EVERY time we have sex but most of the time we should be doing it for love and not to get our rocks off. Sometimes you just need to release and feel good doing it.