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lonely and desperate

GAPDaTsar
GAPDaTsar

can't explain this well but I'm extremely tired of being alone. I seriously need some help. I can't stand all the hormones. They are nearly uncontrollable and they at starting to cause a bunch of problems around other people. My kinks/fetishes are starting to creep to other people including relatives and I'm beginning to appear very problematic to other people. I'm starting to think of hormone therapy or neutering as valid options. I fear that I may or already have become a sex addict. I feel like I need intercourse all the time and am desperate to get it at anytime and anywhere all the time. If I don't stop feeling so lonely and desperate I most likely will put an end to these feelings by actually getting hormone pills or being neutered. I don't know any other way to solve this problem. By the way, I'm a guy.

OlderCPer
OlderCPer
You can pretty much bet you'll have a hard time finding someone to "Neuter" you.....generally when we have a problem, we get professional help to deal with and heal from the problem. Maybe calling a Therapist would be a better option than finding someone to "Neuter" you or give you unprescribed hormones.
TonyConrad
TonyConrad
I think you need to be married to someone you relate to well. I would advise not to marry on kinks but on a good relationship. I am kinky also but married for love. My wife is comfortable with my kinks even though she is what they call vanilla. Until then I would excercise good control otherwise you just might end up as an immoral person. Plenty of time in marriage to do what you like.
GAPDaTsar
GAPDaTsar
TonyCondrad In no woman's right mind would they ever want to marry me with my kinks. I'm a furry, otherkin, I have a fetish for animal people, dragons arouse me... Do you think any girl wants a good relationship and love with me when all that will be on their minds is "Why did I fall for this creep?" I would have to find a girl with the same fetishes as me so I can be with someone despite it may last temporarily. Plus, I don't want to get married, marriage sucks. I just want to cohabit with a GF.
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