Me, me, ME!!! I need it the most!

I really don't think it's a gender thing, I believe it's an individual thing. Every serious relationship I've been in, my libido has always been higher than the man's. They've been very high too but I've always been higher. There was never so much of a difference that it became an issue in our relationship.

Reasons why, just because it's how I am, the way I'm wired.

You know my thoughts on hair pulling and biting, if you're going to ride my ass, you better pull my hair and biting, wel I just love being bit. If you end up with bite marks on you, you know you did me real good. I get my annual rabie shots so no worries there and hair pulling or biting is never done in anger. ;o)

awe leather, you sweet talking thing you, LOL

I always seem to be wanting it more, and in the past it always seemed my partners were more than willing to oblige, then suddenly it was as if the power was shut off, maybe I should have been biting and hair pulling more often, just to keep them interested LOL

OK - I'm probably sounding like a total wuss here : ) - but I think I might need love more than sex. I know I want the sex too because I can never resist checking out women and all their glorious attributes! However, I think I'm discovering that the love part if it is much more important to me than I had ever realized before. If I could find that mutual desire with another woman again it would be amazing. Do I want this more than a woman would? I'm not sure? I just know that as a man I am somehow now feeling more driven by a desire for love first, and then sex as a part of that love.

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I don't think it depends on gender at all. I think it's down to how dirty your mind is and some people are dirrrtier than other's.

Women need sex the most. By engaging in some kind of regular sexual encounters, may keep us from jumping into a possible hurtful relationship.

By keeping sexually "satisfied", helps me weed out the bad guys from the good guys and I can make better choices instead of letting the lust of desire overwhelm me. Perhaps sex helps me to keep from exposing so much vulnerability.

I really believe women need sex the most.

Generally speaking I do believe the male species is more hard-wired for sex. I do know women who complain about husbands who never want it though.

I'm with arem on the wanting love to be a part of it, but I'm beginning to wonder if Reb has the right idea.

i think it depends on the individual.

I probably just have a high sex drive but I have always wanted more sex than my partner in every relationship I have been in. Guys seem to be happy with one and done and I am looking for round #2, 3 and 4. It's been exhausting for most of the men that I've been in a relationship with. I just love how they feel. I never want it to end.

these are my personal opinions.

yes, individuals vary on their sex drives....but overall, i believe men need physical sex more than women. i also feel that women need more emotional bonding than men....and we tend to find that connection when physical sex is involved.

i suppose too, the highly orgasmic population will tend to want sex more because those people pretty much know they're always going to have a happy ending, therefore increasing the "need" for sex.....whereas the less fortunate people might not be so enthusiastic about it and the "need' for it is diminished.

I've said before that I have a stronger sex drive than my husband, but I'm not sure that's entirely true. When I want sex, it's often more about just being close to him than that urgent NEED for an orgasm. For him, though, I think wanting sex is usually just wanting sex. So in my case, I'm not 100% sure I can answer the question one way or the other.