Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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deleted_user 12/20/2008

Why do a lot of men get turned on by the idea of watching lesbians? What is that turns them on? I don't think as many women get turned on watching gay men.

deleted_user 12/20/2008

I think two men together is a beautiful sight....as long as they don't got lotsa facial hair going on then it just looks germy...!!!!!...I think as long as two people love eachother the sexual organs don't matter if they are the same...

deleted_user 12/20/2008

True. I think it is because it is different. Men are more visual. We get turned on by different things. Ask 50 people what turns them on and you will get about 50 different responses. For example how many men would say they would get excited watching their wife have sex?

deleted_user 12/20/2008

LOL - yes, the facial hair thing wouldn't look sexy to me either!

Can't say that gay porn really does it for me, but in real life I've seen guys kiss - I think it's touching when you can see that they're really into each other. That's probably what the porn's missing!

deleted_user 12/20/2008

I like watching beautiful naked women spread their legs.....2 beautiful naked women spreading their legs is twice as nice. Watching Rosie O'Donnell and Ellen getting it on would not turn me on though LOL

DepressedRecluse 12/20/2008

EEEEWWWWW Freddie,

that's an image i can do without...

maybe Ellen and her wife, but NO, NOT Rosie and Ellen...eeewwww...thats just gross....

-DR-

deleted_user 12/20/2008

I like watching, period. women, men, men and women, doesnt matter. lol!

I would think that a guy would rather see bi girls getting it on, because that way he might be welcome to join in....

deleted_user 12/20/2008

i agree with daisy...watching no matter female or male is exiciting. its not so much who, but what or how it is presented...

deleted_user 12/20/2008

Lesbians and girl on girl sex rocks whether you are female or male straight, bi or gay . . . .Man on man doesnt do it for me but I am with those who said its great to see love no mater what the gender

deleted_user 12/20/2008

I think it is for two reasons. I find the female body attractive and then I think a man can fantacize that he is one of the two women.

I have felt that if I like to watch two women it would only be fair to find two men a turn on but it isn't.

deleted_user 12/20/2008

I LOVE girl on girl................as long as one of them is me lol

;)~

deleted_user 12/21/2008

Men with Men dosent do it for me but what is better than seeing two beautiful women together...hhhmmm

deleted_user 12/21/2008

I don't think it matters what nationality the girls are

jimmysquirrel 12/21/2008

ok... i just have to make this clear... Rosie turns on NO ONE

flutterbyfly 12/21/2008

I'm the same way. Love watching or being one of the girls. But guy on guy does nothing for me. I'm glad that they're happy, don't get me wrong. Just doesn't do anything for me. Don't know why that double standard is there with so many. It just is.

deleted_user 12/21/2008

I like to watch lesbian porn, but in no way am i wanting to be with those girls...its all about the oral sex for me..im not kidding. they know how to get eachother off and that hot clit licking/pussy slurping is enough for me and my husband off both. mmmm hotness!

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