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Kink I've needed to talk about

Valoo
Valoo

It's more than just a kink, really, but that's the really embarrassing part. For more than 3 years now, I've been wearing pull-ups during the day, and diapers at night. It started with just diapers on the weekends, as a way to help me through a very stressful job. I've since left that job, but I never stopped wearing diapers. In fact, I started wearing pull-ups too, and now they're all I wear. I haven't worn my "normal" underwear in like... at least a year. Diapers and pull-ups just... feel better. I feel safe. Sometimes I even suck my thumb or sleep with a stuffed animal if I get really overwhelmed. It feels wrong to need this, it feels wrong that it helps me so much. Shouldn't I be past sucking my thumb, past diapers, past... all of this? I don't know what's wrong with me

GreenEyes727
GreenEyes727
That doesn't sound like a kink but more of a coping mechanism.
Valoo
Valoo
I mean, it is, but it's also a kink. It's called ABDL, which stands for adult baby/diaper lover. I just enjoy a less sexualized version of the kink
Dragonfly_2025
Dragonfly_2025
There is nothing wrong with wearing diapers and sucking your thumb or cuddling with a plush animal. I know how you feel about it but it’s totally okay having these feelings. Yes, it is a way of coping with stress and anxiety or other traumas but you should not feel embarrassed or ashamed of having these nice feelings.
Barry
Barry
I don't think there is anything wrong in what you do. I wear pull-ups with a big pad to cover an erection and the whole of my bum crevice.. I rub myself against it to .make me feel good
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