Boy oh boy...i don't think sex is trivial at all.

Our sexuality is such a huge part of our lives, our personality and relationships.

There are things in ALL of our lives that others may or may not deem trivial, however, if it affects your life, it is not trivial at all.

And Flutter is absolutley right, there is SO much more to sex than just an orgasm. It's being vulnerable, intimate and needed. It's about sharing the most intimate part of you with another person. Nothing trivial about that at all.

it is selfish.. but you can't sacrifice every part of your life and happiness just because you know someone somewhere isn't happy.. as long as you care about that suffering and do your best to help and stop it then take advantage of being able to enjoy your life.

No sex in a healthy relationship is not trivial. It is rewarding when both partners are deep into each other. Yes there are terrible things happening all over the world. But, I have no control over them other than praying someday mankind can learn to get along with each other. Sex is what it is in your mind. If we allowed ourselves to be focused on world happenings all the time all we would be is a world of limp dicks and dry pussy. JMO

Well it kinda goes along with being married. It doesn't mean that I don't care about the world or that I don't help when I can.

Someone equated sex to food and water as a basic necessity. Food and water are necessary for survival. Sex is a priveledge, and perhaps we could say that sex is necessary for SPIRITUAL survival, but we will not die physically without it.

Anyway, I'm glad I brought something new to the table to think about here in HS.