Healthy Sex Support Group
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...from reading these posts, I hear so many women whose men have completely lost sexual interest in them, or men who fall madly in love while their ladies could care less.
Since when did men become the "women" and women become the "men" in relationships? When exactly did that paradigm shift happen-? I must've been asleep during it lol.
Over the last 20 years, it seems men have become whimpy, whiny, lovesick puppies while women have become aggressive, confident sexual vixens. I'm all for the latter, of course, and can handle such a woman, but men can and should be confident too!
Is it just me, or does everyone else notice the genders seem to have become confused?
Since when did men become the "women" and women become the "men" in relationships? When exactly did that paradigm shift happen-? I must've been asleep during it lol.
Over the last 20 years, it seems men have become whimpy, whiny, lovesick puppies while women have become aggressive, confident sexual vixens. I'm all for the latter, of course, and can handle such a woman, but men can and should be confident too!
Is it just me, or does everyone else notice the genders seem to have become confused?
Happy Saturday Sapphire still bed bound? You can come over and play if you want I will make room on the couch
My spouse honestly isn't interested in my sexual needs. We've had this problem for a long time. Where I will come here and find ways to please him, he isn't interested in learning how to please me at all. I finally started pointing out that he "just isn't that into me". He has denied it but when confronted that he gives Rush Limbaugh more ear time and responds more readily to other political commentary people the response is kinda quiet.
Sometimes, I think that I am wanted for taking care of the kids, the home, etc so that everything looks good on the outside or something. Then after he was laid-off and is now at home, I'm wanted more maybe even understood a little more, but still "just not that into me". I also notice he's more affectionate and attentive sense he knows I'm trying to get a different job with a better salary, etc.
I'm tired. But, he's nice to me. He's also very nice to our children. He loves them and me more than my father did for my sibling, mother and I. (That's just a whole nother nasty sad hell - a very sad hell.)
Yeah, maybe he's a bit wimpy, but he didn't have a good male role model at all. Thank goodness his mother had enough sense to leave the marriage after his step-father hit her. Because of this and only the influence of his mom, he is sensitive to the needs of women especially single moms. For this I am grateful. My husband isn't that into me but he is very nice to me and very nice to our children. He abandons us in his own way, but I don't think he understands what he's doing.
His mom and his sister both have really strong personalities . . . sooo, to survive in a home with pms, he learned how to be more "laid back". Probably enough to disappear into the wood work and not be seen much. That's what seems to happen in my home if any conflict arises. Even if it's good conflict.
I honestly believe the things many people ar seeing are the result of pain. The genders are not confused, jmho.
Pain caused by unhealthy people in society. The pain trickled down from one generation to another and now here we are.
Anytime one people group is oppressed tooo long and unmercilessly, I believe they will rise up against their oppressors. It doesn't happen overnight, but I believe it does happen I think the "gender confusion" is a result of actions and reactions to oppression. JMHO
I did take my son to his acting job and am picking him up in a few (he is 22 but never learned to drive, so usually takes the bus places - but I am being nice) today, other than that I am being a couch potato myself.
Would LOVE to join you, sexy lady!
This couch shit is for the fucking birds and so is the weather am tired of it