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is it important?

tossedaside
tossedaside
Is it important for lovers to climax simultaneously? I realize that is not likely to happen every time a couple hits the sheets, kitchen table,countertop, swingset etc etc. but the double whammy orgasm, combined bliss of cumming at the same time..
Is it important for you?
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deleted_user
deleted_user
I actually find I dont like it when that happens... I like to feel and give him my full attention when it is his time to cum, so I feel like I loose that opportunity if we cum together. Im to distracted by my orgasm to enjoy his.

So yea as long as we each get off ( if we both want and need to) Im good
deleted_user
deleted_user
Simultaneously is great, but I have multiple orgasms and then i get one final big one when i am ready. I usually end up focusing on myself at that point, so together at the same time didn't happen very often. But, as long as we both get what we want, that is all that matters.
whiskeytangofoxtrot
whiskeytangofoxtrot
No, not important to me.
koolman
koolman
Important? No.

Nice option? Yes!

Makes two lovers feel totally connected, if they affect each other that much that they cam climax simulatenously!
lostsoul72
lostsoul72
I feel its more like icing on the cake . It seldom happens for me , but when it dose it makes it so much better. It like taking a awesome experiance and making a 100X better.
deleted_user
deleted_user
It's not really important, but as others have said, when it does happen that way, it's pretty amazing!!
goodtotalk
goodtotalk
Happens some of the time and its always hot when it does. Don't necessarily make it a point to try and force it but its always nice when it works out that way