It doesn't hurt, that's for sure. If it did, I guess I would need to go get something checked out.

I don't think there should be any disappointment if one happens before the other. But I would say that simultaneously adds a lot to the experience.

From a woman's perspective, I can orgasam numerous times for me, and usually it turns me on so much when I can tell he's about to cum that I cum at the same time.........bliss!

It's not important, but it sure is wonderful when it happens.. Like a flower opening on a sunny moning while angels are singing and harps are playing.
What is important to me is that my partner makes sure I cum during a love making session, as I would for him.. None of this one sided crap of cumming then falling asleep.

Through (shhh) on occasion I have fallen asleep during love making. That's what happens though when no one helps pick up some of the slack during the day.

I kind of feel like I'm being asked "is it important that I be able to play cello like Yo-Yo Ma?" It would probably be nice, but if I don't I'm not going to be all broken up about it.

I think it's important that both get off..
Simultaneously..I think happens far lees often than we're led to believe...so, I wouldn't lose sleep over it not happening.

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I agree with butrfli. Once he gets me going, i can't stop cumming. When he gets ready to orgasm, i get even more turned on and have a few more. I don't know if we happen to hit simultaneously or not, but it's pretty dang close.

It is not my goal....It is wonderful when it does happen but if definitely will not bother me if it doesn't happen.

This is hard to explain.... I get so much pleasure from pleasing someone I love. It drives me crazy to see a partner climaxing, his facial expressions, noises etc.. I totally love being fully there when he is cumming; if that makes any sense.. lol

@Lisa

It makes perfect sense. I feel the same. That is one of the greatest things there is imho. to watch my man as he climaxes because of the pleasure he has found in my body.

This thread reminded me of this song.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ss0kFNUP4P4

No, not important to me.

Thanx for the replies, never hear a lot about this, so was wondering how many or few thought about it.

not at all. as long as each of them cums at some point.
i've never cum at the same time - maybe once a long time ago - i am sure it is incredible but i don't think it is necessary.

swingset? lol!

Since I have multiple orgasms, it is very easy for me to cross that line again physically. It very much becomes a mental factor. Just knowing that my husband is going to ejaculate is enough to enduce an orgasm for me. My husband is very aware of this and makes sure that I am aware of his timing. As it is also a desire of his for us to reach orgasmic bliss at the same time. So for me, orgasms with my partner are simultaneous pretty much every time.

It is not a must, however it is a extreme bonus. I'm very lucky that all I have to do is tell my wife I'm gonna cum and it happen simultaneous almost without fail.