nope i don't like aggressive men. I left my first husband. It's a turn off. Sorry

Thanks, ladies! I don't LIKE being angry (I like being loving). You've given me hope!

You're looking at the extreme 0.05% ends of the bell curve, koolman...personally, if I were into having a wife and/or girlfriend, I'd concentrate on being the cheerful, personable, well-adjusted statistical average.

I think arrogance in extreme is a major turn off. Having a good self esteem is one thing. But thinking you are gods gift is a total turn off to me.

No. Anger is a turnoff.

I tend to be attracted to guys who are more domineering and like to take control of things, makes me feel like the woman. But not in a your my dog bitch way.

Funnily enough, I've often had a lot more male attention when I've been angry about something or other - not so much outright aggressive, I just do the very controlled smoke coming out of my ears thing!
But then of course I'm just not in the mood to take advantage of the situation, and they seem to lose interest once I've calmed down again.
I suppose a lot of people must interpret anger as a sign of passion, as long as it doesn't look outright hostile/threatening!

Persephone: You're "offended". Well, sorry, but I can't help the way YOU feel. I was trying to keep this post light, but when I harped on the "abusive relationships" thing, it clearly went off in a different direction (for some people) that I did not intend. Good luck in your sexual exploits. You are the kind of woman I'm trying to avoid.

It is not attractive unless invited. Coming on too strong too soon is a huge turnoff.