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Not sure how many here have been on pof, but I imagine enough to get some feedback.
Many of the profiles I read ask for, or seek honesty. Great plan, honesty instills trust thus promoting a healthy relationship, right?
So at the bottom of each profile, there is a segment geared to qualifications and or deal breakers, like, non smoker, within 75 miles, no kids, between the ages of
Then the clincher
MUST NOT HAVE CONTACTED OR BE looking for an intimate encounter.
Excuse me, at end game, are not most of the people on dating sites hoping to get lucky, eventually get laid, sure sure, honesty is imperative, so why would you state you have no desire to make contact with someone looking for the same, granted, one night stands, I flings may not be in order, but please, to pass judgement simply because an individual is honest and forthright in their intentions.
Seems a double standard is in play on pof
Honestly, who is the player, lol
Opinions, discussion, or STFU Toss
Many of the profiles I read ask for, or seek honesty. Great plan, honesty instills trust thus promoting a healthy relationship, right?
So at the bottom of each profile, there is a segment geared to qualifications and or deal breakers, like, non smoker, within 75 miles, no kids, between the ages of
Then the clincher
MUST NOT HAVE CONTACTED OR BE looking for an intimate encounter.
Excuse me, at end game, are not most of the people on dating sites hoping to get lucky, eventually get laid, sure sure, honesty is imperative, so why would you state you have no desire to make contact with someone looking for the same, granted, one night stands, I flings may not be in order, but please, to pass judgement simply because an individual is honest and forthright in their intentions.
Seems a double standard is in play on pof
Honestly, who is the player, lol
Opinions, discussion, or STFU Toss
Just my opinion.
I struggle with this.
Do I want to have sex? YES
Do I want a guy who only sees me as a sex object? NO
I think this is the issue. I want someone I can have a mental/emotional bond with, too, and that takes time to figure out.
*sigh* It's a jungle out here.
i bet it makes some people feel a little more comfortable (safe?) that the person they might be having coffee with next week isn't going to immediately jump their bones.
but we all know (well...some of us) that this is the internet and you have to be careful. common sense goes a long way.
Hehe.
Did I mention that I like bananas.
Joke aside, that is about how seriously I take POF.
I guess my dislike for the aforementioned issue is unfounded. Just feel its wrong that if a person contacts a member who is looking for an intimate encounter, they are instantly branded as a perv, player etc and systematically blocked if they attempt contact with any one not looking for an IE.
AND no, I have no been branded yet, but some of those IE girls are damned cute. Lol
If people want intimate encounters, I feel they should be able to get them. As long as everybody is honest and no one gets hurt, it AIN'T my business!
Carry on.
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