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Many times when my boyfriend and i have sex, he either can't ejaculate or can't seem to stay hard long enough. he's mentioned going to the doctor about it, but hasn't actually gone yet. i'm hoping that he can get some medication to help him. the thing is he's only 25 years old and i'm wondering if any other guys have experienced this problem at this age?? and any advice on how to help him??
deleted_user
i had that problem. for me it was performance anxiety. my fear was that if i lost an erection and not only would i not be man enough, but also my girlfriend would think i did not like her. so it worked against me. basically is was lack of confidence. when i got rid of that fear, the problem went away. if he feels presure to make you happy it could be related. age is not the issue. ED can come at any age, but is more common in older men, 40's 50's. there is a Erectile Disfunction section in men's health (i think it is there). you may want to post a question there, and see what other men with ED have to say.
cowboy357
I had that problem from meds , it lasted awhile took viagra , it helped , but it also passed I'M fine now
deleted_user
Does he drink a lot? Drinking too much can effect performance. Just a thought. Good luck honey and make that boy go to a doctor because it could be a sign of a real problem too.
deleted_user
I agree here. Meds, alcohol, and exhaustion can cause this. For me, it also has to do with my woman, and whether she's really into creating that special bond during sex. If she's making her shopping list, I immediately go down. My tool is like a love thermometer.
deleted_user
Yeh, common problem I think. I know that exhaustion, lack of exercise, blood flow, and certainly the relationship all affect me. Meds as well I think. But I would say mostly it is the relationship. I am turned on when my wife is and nothing can make my penis go down if she is all wet. So, get wet and don't worry to much about it. Truely, a turned on woman is the best thing for any man.
cowboy357
try enzyte you can buy it over the counter , my cousin said it works
paulgonzales86
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