Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
I love my husband so very much, and I'm still attracted to him. I'm always willing to have sex with him so that he can enjoy an orgasm, but I really have no desire to have my own. I do what I do to make him happy because that makes ME happy emotionally, but physically... eh. The problem is that he thoroughly enjoys the process of getting me off but my lack of interest makes that process "annoying" because I'm having to try so hard. We've had several talks about it and he's sweet enough to understand that I just really dont want to, but then I feel bad because I know that he enjoys it.
Not to say that I NEVER want it, because I do, but its not often and certainly doesnt match his desire level. What frustrates me the most is knowing that when I DO want it, I totally enjoy it! And it feels AMAZING - there is literally no downside to having sex with my husband! So why dont I have the desire more than maybe once a month?? I literally want to want it, but I dont.
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Hi All.... It's great to see all of the new people joining the site... I'm loving it!!...smileI'm not sure if people are aware that if you don't have Bipolar Disorder but have a loved one who has the disorder we do have a board for people to go to in order to share their experiences and seek friendship, support or adviseIt's the Friends and Family of Bipolar Board.... I hope you'll take a...
To keep the peace, keep the hubby happy...you can always fake it, like most wives do when a husband needs the ego boost of making sure their wife has the big moment every time.