My hubby a lot of time goes without showering every two to three days and I have to actually tell him to go shower most of time. Obviously your not going to want to have sex with someone who doesn't shower or bathe reguarly, but the worst part of it is. I check the history on the net, because I know he often goes on the net to watch porn and what not. It bothers me because he doesn't shower reguarly enough for us to even have sex regularly and then instead of having sex with me, he pleasures himself with porn and doesn't come to bed and sleeps on the couch because he knows i will bitch about him smelling up the bed. So instead he puts a sheet over the couch and sleeps there half the time.

Issue lately was he told me last night he was going to shower and he didn't. He stayed up late watched porn and slept on the couch. In the morning I got pissed off cause he went another day without showering, and then pleasured himself again instead of having sex with me and chooses to go another night without showering over pleasuring himself and not sleeping in the bed with me. He says if he jacks off and then has sex he gets friction burn on his dick and that's why he can't have sex for days...but later on in the day he jacks off after he tells me he has friction burn and has to wait to have sex. Then the last couple times he hasn't gotten off while we have had sex, because he has gotten off himself prior and it really is insulting to me.I don't know what to do anymore.