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How long is average for a guy to last?

fireserpent
fireserpent
I don't know if my past partners just sucked and the one I am with now is the average one or they were average and he just takes longer(which I am liking).. Previous 3 men I dated once penetration happened 5-7 minutes average they were done. New guy penetration and 30 minutes + later he is still going strong. He is not trying to hold out either it just takes that long. Hes not circumcised but I doubt that would make a difference.
scarletjaded
scarletjaded
My plan is to time it by just watching the clock....but that still requires having sex.... still waiting for that, lol
debmitchell
debmitchell
I could try watching the clock, but for one, that seems like an awful silly thing to be doing at that particular moment in my life, and for another, I have a hard time twisting around to get a good look at the clock when having fun lol
scarletjaded
scarletjaded
Agreed, but i figured a quick peek at the time right at the beginning, and another right at the end I'm the name of science wouldn't be too distracting.
tossedaside
tossedaside
Actually, there is a formula for deducing how long intercourse will last.


You take length of sclong L
Times diameter of balls DD
Minus circumfernce of sac C

So L x D+D - C = time

Lets do the math, 6 x (1.5 +2) - 5 = 16 min
Or maybe not, by the time you measure everything and the consequential toying associated, then you're back to 5 minutes


Hey, it could be accurate.
koolman
koolman
Depends on age, health and enthusiasm factors, how turned on a guy is.

I "last" a lot longer now, in my late 40s, than in my 20s. Could be I've become desensitized to physical sensation as I've gotten older, or that sex has lessened in my mind in terms of priority (MONEY seems to be more of a priority in my mind now). Maybe your beau is running the Wall Street Journal's headlines in his head while boning you-!