Never had a guy that ;lasted for 30 min..Usually they cum in 2-3- min then we go again and then it lasts for a very long time

I think you kind of can generalize but I think it's different with every male and female and even considering the attraction between them. I know I used to be lucky if I could last 2-3 min and in recent years the first time is usually like 5-7 min and the next time is like 15 and the next time is as long as I want it. Sadly after that it's a struggle. It depends on if I'm wearing a condom or not. Without a condom divide all those time estimates in half at least and exponentially decreasing in duration.

Multitude of studies done on this, with varying times recorded. Some suggest 3-7 minutes, one survey claimed 15-20 minutes.

Like all surveys, or for all things, details can be skewed as all survey applicants are individuals.

On a personal basis, in my younger years a conservative estimate would be 3-5 minutes, now, 30-40 minutes are possible. So many variables to consider. Jmo, but enjoy it all you can

My experience? 2 out of 5 seemed pretty quick about it, like maybe 10 minutes ish? One was good for about maybe twenty minutes, and the other two were anywhere from 15 minutes (a quickie for them) all the way up to a good solid 45 minutes or longer. Although while it almost seemes difficult for one of those two to finish (and on a few occasions he couldn't) the other can sometimes hold out for 45 minutes naturally, and other times he has to take breaks and move back to forplay for a few minutes to last a long time like that.

Thank you for the answers. I do plan on enjoying it for as long as I can. I kinda thought the average was somewhere between the 5-15 range. It was just today he apologized because he cant seem to last as long as usual with me. I of course reassured him he was more than fine but his comment got me wondering.

Take it as a compliment. But apologizing after sex never helped anybody. Yuck.

10-30+ minutes. Too many variables to correlate. Just enjoy the ride!

Lol fire, that's a good sign! I heard the same from my bf, that he can't last as long with me as he could with girls in thd past. I had another guy friend explain to me, said he could last as long as he wanted with most girls, but the second he was with a girl that he really liked, or was in love with, he had to stuggle to last 10 mminutes. Anyway, if he is finding it hard to last as long as he usually does, he is definitely into you! Have fun, and lots of it :-)

hmmm ive only ever been with my hbby so i cant say anything about other partners////we used to be quick right in the begining but now days we stop start etc for as long as we want ....normally 15 20 before Moby blows his navy load :D

kinda feel like im missing out on shit lol

gotta be honest here....if some man were thrusting me in and out for 30 minutes i'd be sore as hell.....even IF extra lube was included.
no thank you.
i think even 15 minutes would do me in.

I would say 5-10 minutes without stopping is about average for most of the guys I have slept with. I have had a few that were shorter and some longer. I like stopping and going back to foreplay for a few minutes and then getting back at it is good. I don't want a "two pump chump" but I don't want a marathon runner either! Somewhere in the middle is perfect. It takes me about 10 minutes to orgasm if the sex is good, so somewhere between 15-20 minutes would be perfect IF no other play was involved and it was just sex.

i think 5-10 minutes is average for most men.

Gina is right, my urologist once told me that average penetration to climax for a man is 2 minutes!

A guy can train himself to last longer with the "stop and go technique" You can google it it you're interested.

Also there are certain medications that will delay ejaculation like ssri antidepressents, for example. Paxil is a good one for that.

Alcohol can delay also but it is a very fine line between drinking just enough and drinking too much so that you can'e even get it up. Another doctor told me that.

If you take narcotic pain killers, this also will delay for quite a long time but you may not even be able to cum at all! Plus, you won't get that mind blowing orgasm either.

These are things I have cum across in my life and am happy to share :)

Either which way, it's hard to bring up the subject as to why he can't hang on or doesn't want to. OR, "what the heck is taking so long?" Incompatibility in the bedroom is a harder one to discuss as it is so deeply personal.

Good info bob :-)

@ reveal. I agree there is such a thing as too long. 20-30 minutes for me is plenty, any much longer than that I start getting sore and dry