Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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How Long Has It Been?

HeaveToo
HeaveToo
I was just trying to figure this out. I think my last time was in Late June or early July.

I have become to going long times without because my ex-wife didn't have much of a drive and she would hold out on me for months.

I was dating some but nothing got serious enough. I really don' t like one night stands.

Now that I have stopped dating for a while (Dating is too expensive when you don't have a job and that is a long story) it seems like it may be a very long dry spell. This sucks.

I think that I miss companionship even more than the act. Having someone to come home to and share things with. I miss human contact and closeness.

How long has it been for you?

What do you miss the most?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yesterday morning wake up call after Valentines Day :)

Ain't NO WAY IN HELL i'm going longer than a couple weeks!! lol That's what Craigslist is for lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
The last time I had sex was just about a year ago. Before that was over 3 years. And not sure when it will be again except with BOB.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Since 2005 I have had sex maybe a dozen times or so with my wife. Miss the closeness, miss the passion, miss the SEX!! LOL, masterbate alone mostly....
deleted_user
deleted_user
It's been about a year and a half. I miss pretty much everything about it to be totally honest.
deleted_user
deleted_user
ok so i guess i don't get the idea behind this support group thing, atleast so far. but that's surely a fault on my part right? So far despite hearing one guys story of his Hep C deal and faltering marriages i guess i'm a bit unsure how any of the rest of your "how long its been" stories are going to help any of us. Except to wallow is self pity. I'm reading all of these and i get one simple truth from it all. We as people need human contact, geting us to that "bridge" is less the battle than being happy on the other side once we jump so, maybe we could focus on that? looking for a solution rather than the broken record of how we all feel.
deleted_user
deleted_user
It's known as "having fun" lol If a support group were nothing but advice and feelings then this place would get pretty damn depressing REAL quick! lol So then you don't respond to a certain thead. See how easy ? lol
HeaveToo
HeaveToo
If you don't like a post, move on. The only negative attitude on this post is you, Sarge. If everyone was uptight and didn't have a little fun on here this would be a really depressing place.
deleted_user
deleted_user
It is all for fun Sarge. This group isnt a very serious one. This one is more to let your hair down and have fun. Gets people away from all the depressing every day stuff. There is a group called Healthy Relationships that is a bit more serious.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Let me try this again and see if my answer sounds a little less wallowing in "self pity" "ish" .



Oh my gosh it's been a year and a half and I CANNOT wait to hop in the sack with a gorgeous well endowed guy again! I am soooooo excited,and I dream about the day I will have me some hot sex again. WOOHOO!!!! More opportunities will arise, and just to get it all out will help me in my search of self discovery.

YAY!



Better?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Just to add onto it Sarge, hugs is right in some aspects, but we also do get serious here, but we also try to lighten the seriousness with playful humor.

If you have a topic that you would like to discuss you are more than welcome to post it and we will answer it respectfully and to the best of our knowledge.
deleted_user
deleted_user
A quickie the Saturday morning (he woke me up at 5 a.m......I don't remember much! lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
yes christy thanks for the boost out of pity. long haul, you have a point but my impression of this was to be like AA, not that i'm encouraging anyone to be a depressed bump on a log. i guess i'll look at that other forum. good day.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Wow, what a post to introduce myself on.

Sadly, it's been about 4 years. What I miss is the emotional charge that you get from actually having intense sex. I also miss the interesting experimentation that can come with all of that.

I've never been a one night stand type of gal, so the thought of just going out and finding a stranger to end the streak, well it's just not my thing. SO, who knows how long it will be before the streak is broken.
deleted_user
deleted_user
sarge,,go look somewhere else and stay there..
deleted_user
deleted_user
Nope, this is NOTHING like AA. The one AA meeting i went to years ago,...i was judged as soon as i walked in the door and introduced myself, especially because at the time i was an athiest and so they tried to preach to me as well and i think i lasted about 30 minutes before i excused myself as kindly as i could and got the hell out of there.