Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
I was just trying to figure this out. I think my last time was in Late June or early July.
I have become to going long times without because my ex-wife didn't have much of a drive and she would hold out on me for months.
I was dating some but nothing got serious enough. I really don' t like one night stands.
Now that I have stopped dating for a while (Dating is too expensive when you don't have a job and that is a long story) it seems like it may be a very long dry spell. This sucks.
I think that I miss companionship even more than the act. Having someone to come home to and share things with. I miss human contact and closeness.
How long has it been for you?
What do you miss the most?
I have become to going long times without because my ex-wife didn't have much of a drive and she would hold out on me for months.
I was dating some but nothing got serious enough. I really don' t like one night stands.
Now that I have stopped dating for a while (Dating is too expensive when you don't have a job and that is a long story) it seems like it may be a very long dry spell. This sucks.
I think that I miss companionship even more than the act. Having someone to come home to and share things with. I miss human contact and closeness.
How long has it been for you?
What do you miss the most?
since December?
How long has it been? Two months and four days (not counting solo sex, lol).
3 Things make this "doable", 1) I'm retired Navy and so was used to going up to 10 mos or so, since I never cheated 2) I don't DO one night stands and 3) the ex (of 22 years) had a non-existent sex-drive.
As far as I'm concerned, if there are no real feelings involved - it's just "assisted masturbation". So just be safe, if you don't care about them or trust their lack of STDs, just stay home and "take care of business" ... You'll save money and keep healthy, hehe,
What I miss most ... is just the intimacy in general. Having someone you can talk to ( and say ANYTHING without fear of being judged), someone to walk with (holding hands is definitely a plus), watch movies with (it's NEVER as much fun without someone to snuggle with), etc, etc ... The physical? Sure, I miss that too, but it actually is pretty far down the list for me ...
Lexie
Seven months or seven years...it really does not matter.