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Disturbed420
Disturbed420
I haven't been with my b.f for that long but everything has been great soo far he is everything I could ever ask for...EXCEPT the sex part its not cutting it for me..I don't know what the hell i am suppose to do I like him a lot and i wanna be with him.. its just he is quite small and thats a problem for me, and he's not circumsized and thats another problem. Plus I love giving oral sex (normally) but with him I dont as much cause he never wants to finish because he feels if he comes in my mouth it is degreating. I said well just go on me but he wont do that either. I am used to the rough hard core kinky sex and that is what i like but its not like that with him.. I have wanted to look else where and I am ashamed to admitt that.. but its true.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Do you have the patience to just give it time? It might take him a while to be comfortable with trying new things.

As far as the size goes, I really dont know what to say about that. Poor guy, you know its not his fault! Is he self-conscience about it? Why does the un-circumsized thing bother you?
Disturbed420
Disturbed420
yeah he is very self conscience about it. I just dont like how it feels and how it looks. its cleaner with being circumsized. I will give him time I like him a lot... its just from the way that he was raised the way he thinks about sex is not the way I see it. I am such a bitch for being soo picky.. i just know what I like and what I dont like. I have mentioned some of the things I like and he doesnt seem to be into it.
Disturbed420
Disturbed420
i really don't like forskin (didn't spell it right :P ) it covers the head and I have a thing for heads.
deleted_user
deleted_user
My xH wasn't circumzid either and he wasn't big on me giving him head until one night I just did and let's just say it was the best head I'd ever given and he was hooked until we split. So don't knock the cover penius it's like xmas u just gotta unwrapp your gift and show him. Plus have some patience with him. Some men espeically those not circumzd are a lil uneased because they aren't the normal idea we get when we think of penius. lol. Good luck.
deleted_user
deleted_user
From a guys point of view, communication, talk to him, be open and honest, I would rather know what my woman needs and wants than be blind sided when she cant take it anymore...
koolman
koolman
I'd say give it another month and then look elsewhere. Life's too short.
everex5
everex5
Just talk to him, be creative and if it doesnt work out, find someone else. Sex is very important in regards to sharing emotions and feelings. That and its great stress releif.