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Why do you think that some people on here could share their lovers while others of us would be jealous?
I will admit that I get jealous. If someone does something inappropriate to someone I am in a relationship with I take offense. I won't go out and beat the hell out of someone for that or other things like that.
Are you a jealous person or are you not? What do you think causes some people to be jealous people while others aren't/
In my opinion Humans are, by our nature, jealous. We don't like competition and we want to come out ahead. I think that some people can believe that they aren't jealous people but given the right situation even they would become jealous. You can only fight human nature so much before it will come out.
I will admit that I get jealous. If someone does something inappropriate to someone I am in a relationship with I take offense. I won't go out and beat the hell out of someone for that or other things like that.
Are you a jealous person or are you not? What do you think causes some people to be jealous people while others aren't/
In my opinion Humans are, by our nature, jealous. We don't like competition and we want to come out ahead. I think that some people can believe that they aren't jealous people but given the right situation even they would become jealous. You can only fight human nature so much before it will come out.
Everybody looks.. Ask yourself if I hot guy walks in are you going to look? I am..
why should it be any different... I'm a big harmless flirt so I cannot be with any jealous person.. UGH! he wouldn't like me.. LOL
Its a confidence thing too... I mean they are with YOU so what you got to worry about? yeah I can't be jealous such a waste of time and it is a stupid fight to get into, its like fighting over nohting
I'm not about to throw a hissy fit if my partner is just friends with another woman, but I know that an open relationship isn't for me.
jealousy is a insecure monster that will take over you head and drive you down to the cutter if you let it. During my twentys i was jealous. Around twenty somthing i realized how bad it was. I made the effort and changed my ways. i quit thinking so much of things that were just in my head and had no control. i realized that i have no conrtol of people and never really did. on the other hand confidence is mighty sexy. I've been around enough to know if you with someone that loves you enjoy all of it. be happy with the one your with. Do nice things to each other that improve on your relationship.The reality is your probably with this person for a short time enjoy the toime you have. Be positive supportive and strong. The world is bad enough without jealousy, insecurity.mike
I must be somewhat jealous since the idea of sharing my GF just doesn't appeal to me.
Suffice to say,I've tried the sharing thing with one of my friends and his GF,and it did not turn out well! We started having feelings for each other(the GF and I) and things got way too awkard after that. He didn't shoot me,so I guess I was lucky on that one,and I can't say as I would blame him for being upset!
I am definitely a jealous person. And insecure for sure. I couldn't have a relationship with someone that was on here flirting with every tom dick and harry. Let alone if they were doing it face to face. I be off. And if I found out they had mind fucked someone else, Finished. That's me. But I am, on the other side, not one to ever do that to someone. Being single though, lets me have some fun.:D
Hell yes its a human emotion. It flys in the face of trust and security when your in love with your SO.
Example, Bambi, yes you may not be that jealous. Unless you are given a reason to be and them like most of us while we might not freak out at the time, on the inside we are between boiling and devastated with hurt and betrayal.
I have even joked about it with bf as in you can look, you can ever talk but no touchy for me thats over the line and some one will be smited later.
I would be hurt, that would be the only time I really have a hint of jealousy..
I just don't have the energy of getting jealous over even harmless flirting.. I dont share my man, so on that stand point it would be bye, bye... LOL
i know it sucks.
I'm not jealous and when I'm with someone I'm with them and noone else... I am not saying there is anything wrong with it... but to say since I'm not jealous that I'm looking for someone else.. Thats not fair. But I guess that's the way people who are jealous would view it. I have never ever cheated.
Sorry you thought that