Healthy Sex Support Group
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Why do you think that some people on here could share their lovers while others of us would be jealous?
I will admit that I get jealous. If someone does something inappropriate to someone I am in a relationship with I take offense. I won't go out and beat the hell out of someone for that or other things like that.
Are you a jealous person or are you not? What do you think causes some people to be jealous people while others aren't/
In my opinion Humans are, by our nature, jealous. We don't like competition and we want to come out ahead. I think that some people can believe that they aren't jealous people but given the right situation even they would become jealous. You can only fight human nature so much before it will come out.
I will admit that I get jealous. If someone does something inappropriate to someone I am in a relationship with I take offense. I won't go out and beat the hell out of someone for that or other things like that.
Are you a jealous person or are you not? What do you think causes some people to be jealous people while others aren't/
In my opinion Humans are, by our nature, jealous. We don't like competition and we want to come out ahead. I think that some people can believe that they aren't jealous people but given the right situation even they would become jealous. You can only fight human nature so much before it will come out.
I'm NOT that jealous really at all, I'm not going to freak if my man is talking just talking or even looks at someone else, doesn't bother me a bit.
With that be said, I'm selfish and would not share my lover with anybody.. If they crossed the line, I'm not going to go all crazy and scream at them... Its simply bye, bye. So I have very little jealousy in me.
I know that for me, life has simply not made it possible for me to be an open, trusting person - in my closest relationships I need to know that I come first before any other outside friendships/ interests.
And besides which, I've never even had the time or energy for more than one man at a time - so I really want a partner to be the same :)
Yes i would from time to time feel pangs of jealousy
I would not be able to share a lover ever,not because i am jealous,its because i love that person to much to share him.
I think jealousy comes from being very insecure in yourself and the relationship.
Maybe, I am from another planet but, I sorta like myself too much to lower myself to let someone influence my decisions. You are the only one that controls how you feel.
I guess I also have the philosphy of if you want to be somewhere else, there's the door. Apparently you are unhappy and think you can do better. Please go look. Apparently I can do better as well.
Just my thoughts
Jealousy is a bitch! LOL
what if you get a flow of jelousy through you if he does look at other women??
what if you do freak if hes talking to another woman??
but what if u were never like that before until he was texting his ex?
if he was on the phone to her??
god knows what else.......
would one person have right to be jelous and not help feeling any other way??
everyone is different...
I mean for me its just worth my energy to be jealous, in my mind I'm with someone cause I trust him.. BUT I also know he is going to look at a pretty girl hell I do... I will be like yeah she is hot not sexually as I'm straight but that's just me
When i was younger yes much jealous, now I don't care...
I will got to strip clubs or whatever with my parnter (when I have one) LOL