If he doesn't already do it, you won't get him to like it. I feel sorry for you but more for him. There is no better feel in the world than having your tongue between a woman's lips. Then your eyes turn up her body, looking at her smooth skin, her face framed by her heaving breast, as she moans and her breathing quickens, eyes rolling back in her head. You are truly using all 5 senses and it's pure bliss if you are rewarded by her climax, nothing gets me harder.

Hmmm He should just do it !
You shouldn't have to ask, send an invitation or anything.
Fresh out of the showers nice but not necessary most of the time, I'm sure you'd know if you needed one.

It sounds like he's never done that, Have you hinted ? come right out n asked him?
Have you talked to him about it?
If he's 'verbal shy' about sex, talk when the lights are dim or out...

I've known women girlfriends/friends who wouldn't do certain sexual things for most of their life, 30,40 50, yrs. who've done things they thought they would never do, or never thought of doing.

My point is PPL change , Soo maybe Shanban will get lucky eventually with her hubby eatin out....

Have you told him it's something you want/enjoy? Did you ever ask him why he doesn't go down?

Talk to him about it at a non-sexual time.

I agree with all the posts so far.
I personnaly have ALWAYS loved it and done it and never had to be coaxed or asked to do it. I Just start with deep kisses and then work my way down. :)

Stressedguy framed it up pretty well for me and what I do and like very much. Nothing like make a woman cum that way !

I have never had to ask.
Usually men just go for it!
:)

Just tell him!

Thanks guys! I know he's done it before and says he enjoys it from conversations we've had outside the bedroom so I just thought maybe it was me....

Since he said he's done it and enjoys it, ask him why he doesn't do it to you. Does he know it's something you want and enjoy?

I don't know any guy that doesn't like going down. I'm actually a fiend for it. Turns me on more than anything. I love the natural scent, the texture, I can literally do it for hours!

I think you just need to have a real conversation about it. Or next time you're being sexual with him, sit on his face. Or if you're going down on him, spin around and put your vagina in his mouth. Making each other cum orally at the same time is very intimate. So much fun!

Sadly I think your out of luck. Your only recourse is to stop giving him oral and tell him things have to be 50/50 or improve.

To me it's one of the sacred duties of a man in pleasing a woman.

Next would be grabbing him by the hair or ears and pulling his down there and say 'Eat me DAMMIT'!! :)

Shanbanan,

For what it is worth, if they don't or have not done it, they probably won't. If you really like this guy, you may want to take Joe's advice and cut off his oral until you get yours. I realize that is playing a game but you can tell him why you aren't performing.

My next question is: what if he does do it and you aren't satisfied? Be ready to have that conversation too.

Have you ever considered being a little more assertive? Get each other all worked up then climb on and ride his face when he doesn't expect it. I sure love it when the woman plays the dominant role sometimes.

I'm actually a bit confused......I thought you and your husband don't have sex, and haven't for like 7 years.

???

Good question 'onetoomany'

Pres. Clinton said Oral sex is not sex .lol' oxyMoron' there...lol..

I've always thought anytime someone gives another pleasure to their genitalia it is a sex action.

Shanban can you answer Onetoomany's question please so we understand?
is it just intercourse you haven't had & of course oral on you?