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My girlfriend has a rape fantasy that she likes to act out. She gives me the key to her house and I go over and hide in her bedroom closet. When she
comes home , I jump out and hold a knife to her throat and make her strip.
I use a butter knife so there's no danger of anyone getting hurt , but the cold steel makes it real enough for her. The role play is she's some kind of
important person that I couldnt get otherwise [ I play the role of worker who had come to her house earlier to fix something and found her irresistible.]
I know that in real life , rape is supposed to be about control , but in her game its about someone finding her so desirable that they must have her.
She has lots of other fantasies that I am willing to act out , but this one seems a little odd. It always leads to hot sex , so I go along with it .
I just wonder if its strange or do other people do things like this ?
comes home , I jump out and hold a knife to her throat and make her strip.
I use a butter knife so there's no danger of anyone getting hurt , but the cold steel makes it real enough for her. The role play is she's some kind of
important person that I couldnt get otherwise [ I play the role of worker who had come to her house earlier to fix something and found her irresistible.]
I know that in real life , rape is supposed to be about control , but in her game its about someone finding her so desirable that they must have her.
She has lots of other fantasies that I am willing to act out , but this one seems a little odd. It always leads to hot sex , so I go along with it .
I just wonder if its strange or do other people do things like this ?
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My only question is: If it's a "rape" fantasy, why are the "instructions" HER instructions, on HER terms? Why not surprise her by hiding in the closet or somewhere she's not expecting, really scare the hell out of her?
you never know when someone might freak out. My biggest fear is
that someone might see or hear something and call the cops. We are careful to close the shades but her neighbors house is pretty close.
It does not always play out the same way ..somtimes I tie her up or
blindfold her or other variations , so she doesnt know exactly whats
coming [ no pun intended] so it does add some realism. Funny thing is
so far her only complaint is Im not doing it hard enough. Not to be crude
but her exact words were " If your balls are not slapping my azz hole,
youre not fuk***** me hard enough.
but Im starting to suspect she might be bisexual. She seems to like Playboy magazines even more than me , and its not for the great articles.
its "game on ". Our emails are monitored , so certain words trigger the wrath of the compliance people. She refers to sex as " tupping " , so
any mention of a tupperware party and Im heading for the closet after work.
Yes, "rape", according to HER strict guidelines, is a great idea, and, even then, might be a good idea to have her send you a description of what she wants done in an e-mail from her, from her e-mail address, dated, which you then print out, so all your legal bases are covered.