That is disgusting!!!! It makes no difference whether he is gay or straight. Playing with oneself, either genitals or anus, is highly inappropriate in public. In fact, it's a crime in most areas. You say this goes on at work? Where is the boss? Is this post a joke?

Living Water I think you misunderstood the post. It was a discussion at work. Not that it was happening at work. :)

I say it gay curious. LOL I am a man and I have absolutely no desire to have anyone play with my butt. In my opinion if a man put a dildo in his anus then it is no different then having a cock there and if it is arousing then IMHO they would curious of a same sex experiance. Don't get me wrong here I am not chastising anyone, nore do I have anything against gay men or women for that matter. I just feel that if a person dose gay sexual acts then they are either gay or Bi curious. That dosnt mean they act on the desire to be with a same sex partner.

ummm. LivingWater, this was not HAPPENING it was just a discussion. I work in the medical field. This particular job is homecare, so we dont have a "boss" hovering around. So, we talk pretty freely.

I find this whole thing to be so interesting. I was the only female there and i maintain that it is masturbating. Any form of self-pleasure, regardless of how it is done, is masturbating. The guys all maintain that it is "gay". Every female i have asked has said masturbating, every guy has said gay. I find that to be so unusual!

HA HA HA. I apologize for not "getting it". So it was just a hypothetical question. Well here's a true story of something that really DID HAPPEN on one of my jobs. I was in an all-female typing pool for an insurance company. When we had a 15 minute coffee break, one of the women would (seen by everyone) get a FIVE POUND JAR OF VASELINE out of her desk and disappear into the ladies room for fifteen minutes!

LOL LW your the best!!! I bet she was a big girl......In answer to the question above I would have to say in my experience and I'm as straight as an arrow, the stimulation of the prostate certainly has brought great pleasure to me. As a matter of fact receiving oral while having the prostate stimulated is probably my favorite. I know this might be too much info..but hell at my age we get away with it..:)

I don't have a prostate gland. But boys like to have them played with!

Not all boys do! I am seriously against it and have no desire to be played with there. I do feel that if some boys like then more power to them, but this one will never let anyone go down that path.

My wife loves playing with my ass. And i also enjoy it. Not a gay thing. When she plays with it and gets my dick hard i think about another hard cock. I think about tearing that box up

Female here lol

I agree with sheisfreenow.

I think some people may look at it as a "gay thing" because it's common among gay men to pleasure themselves.

But in all honesty...I would question anyone I'm with if I randomly caught him masturbating and using a dildo in his ass.

Btw my past work environment was worst and we had discussions and debates about the same issues. Just had a similar debate about men who do anal...if they're gay as well lol. I said no but you know men.

I don't think it matters if a guy plays with his ass it doesn't make him gay. I agree it's part of his body if it feels good go for it :) If he is playing with his ass and thinking of a guy he's gay, if he just likes how it feels not gay.