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FWB QUESTIONS

GZUSthug
GZUSthug
I HAVE A FEW QUESTIONS ABOUT FWB'S.

DO FWB'S PERFORM ORAL?
DO YOU KISS THEM?
IS THERE ALOT OF FOREPLAY PERFORMED?

OR IS IT MORE OF A NUT AND GO?

REALLY, I HAVE NO IDEA, AND I'LL PROBABLY NEVER HAVE A FWB, SO I WAS JUST CURIOUS.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Don't worry your sweet self Tossy...so long as you don't go around saying that!

OK Gzus...I think my friend and I cared very much for each other, we just knew it wouldn't be more than friendship...so it wasn't just "fucking" it was intimate as well. Did I just say that out loud?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I know what you are saying Gzus. Not that my FWB fell in LOVE with me, but he started to develop feelings which really sucked, because I didn't feel the same.
tossedaside
tossedaside
again I reply my oh my we have come a long ways when Staci types "fucking" out loud * ok Ill stay in the corner*
deleted_user
deleted_user
Exactly Staci...I still talk with mine and in fact yesterday..and perhaps will shall try it again..who knows. I do care about him, just not in a "relationship" way!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Crap...I DID say it out loud!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yes Ma'am you did!
GZUSthug
GZUSthug
I GUESS I TAKE SEX VERY SERIOUSLY AND I GET VERY VERY ATTACHED IMMIDIATLY.
GZUSthug
GZUSthug
I GUESS IT'S MY GIFT AND MY CURSE. I HAVE SEX I GET MARRIED.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Well Gzus, that's because you're a sweetheart!
GZUSthug
GZUSthug
I GUESS I'M PRETTY OLD SCHOOL WHEN IT COMES TO SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS.
tossedaside
tossedaside
Gzus I think that may be the downfall of our species LOL although I would dearly love some action I dont know if I could not view it as more than just sex, probably wont find out either lol
GZUSthug
GZUSthug
THANKS STAC. THAT WAS VERY KIND.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Keke...you called me ma'am. You calling me a mimi? Hummmm?
deleted_user
deleted_user
oh yea!
oooohhhh yea
Ohhhh ohhhh ohhhh yea!

no it would be more like hang out be friends but no sleeping over.....maybe watch some movies and bam bam...
deleted_user
deleted_user
It just happened. The first one ever? He worked at the same place where I had a tema building workshop. I was there for three days and only saw him for about 2 hours as he led my group through the workshop. After I left he asked around about me, and someone told him which office I worked at. When I got back from the conference I had a message to call Mike. I was like Call WHO? I had no idea. I called him, and he told me who he was, and asked me out.

We went on a date. No real connection. He's attractive, sexy even, successful, tall, athletic, intelligent, and the list goes on and on.

Physically he was everything I'm drawn to, but we lead VERY different lives.

We were flirting, and he showed great interest which I SO needed at the time. Just someone thinking I was sexy - made me feel that I was. And he told me over and over...damn, this is making me want to call him. LOL

Anyways, we had the "Where is this going?" conversation and we agreed we're both very different people with different interest that were physically attracted to one another. I thought on it for a week. One horny night, I called him over and the rest is history.