Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
I've got a problem.. I'm a full figured woman and I AVOID being ontop. I've never been ontop of a man to begin with not sure what to do once i'm ontop of a man, do i keep my feet on the bed or my knees? My fiance' has a belly and I'm unsure on what to do.. Does anyone have any suggestions. I also feel as if being ontop makes me feel bigger and fatter... :/ How do I avoid these thoughts, He constantly wants me ontop of him but i'm embarassed and afraid.. Afraid I'll look too fat or not do it right.. :/ What do I do?
There r times that i dont always feel as sexy as my H says I am. For those times.We have a dimmer light in the bathroom. That gets turned on. SO he gets to c what he wants but there is still some mystique there. Which for those days helps me feel a lil better about it.
I wouldn't worry about whatever rolls of fat you may have around the waist--I'd just concentrate on heaving your mammaries in his face, cover up his belly with the rest of you, and it will be great.