intelligence

I'm a blond so I go with beauty. Don't want a girl who is too much smarter than me!!!

omg jjshred thats a bit shallow i like people whom are smarter then me and dumber then me god its personality first looks second

I have to say intelligence.
I have met really good looking men and when they opened there mouth I would wish they never have. But also have met someone who wasn't that all attractive but found myself more attractive cause we could carry on a conversation.
I got lucky, my man has both qualifacation:)

Brains first. bod second

i think intelligence is so important i cant stand talking to ignorant people at all...thats one of my pet peeves grr !

intellingence.. i dont care how they look like.. but they have to have something interesting to talk about.. ilove to talk

I seem to go for beauty first, sadly!!

intelligence is #1 for me. after all if you end up getting married your going to spend a lot of time talking and spending time together and eventually the beauty will fade but the mind will not or at least not as fast lol. also It's nice having someone who can carry on an intellectual conversation about a topic.

I gotta call "BULLSHIT" on many.

When someone walks into a room, or you see someone across the road, is the first thing that comes out of your mouth "Wow, look at the BRAINS on that one!!!"

Yes, something can develop after a conversation, or reading something they've written, heard a song, or something else, but in MOST cases, it's a visual.

Intelligence ...

But, alittleconfused, the question isn't what's the first thing that attracts you, it's what MOST attracts you!!!?
If a really great looking guy opens his mouth and I'm not impressed with what's coming out of it, I will not be the least bit interested in him.
But if a not so good looking guy amazes me with his brilliance, he gets downright good looking!!!!
My soulmate might be the ugliest toad on Earth or the handsomest man in the world, but I'll never know!!!
All I know is that he is far and away the smartest man I have ever met and I fell in love with him before ever hearing his voice or seeing his face.
And wonder of wonders, once I did, I found -- and still find -- everything about him absolutely irresistible!!!

I have to say that I used to let my hormones rule how I picked the guys I was with. I found out usually that there was never a lot of depth to them though.

Now my EX BF was not the most handsome man but was extremely intelligent and he is the first man I ever fell truly in love with. Unfortunately his intelligence allowed him to make a fool out of me and in the process break my heart.

So I have no idea which way I will go, though at least with the handsome ones I don't have to worry usually about them breaking my heart.