Healthy Sex Support Group

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davex 04/01/2011

I'm seeing a woman who produces copious amounts of fluid during sex. I'd love to give her oral, but the taste and odor of all that fluid is too offputting. Any suggestions? As soon as I touch her vagina it starts.

TheAnthemOfTheAngels 04/01/2011

What kind of odor....is it fishy??

deleted_user 04/01/2011

She shouldn't have an offensive odor, she probably has an infection of some kind. Or, are you someone who just doesn't enjoy the taste and smell of a woman?

deleted_user 04/01/2011

I agree with the others, the scent/taste shouldn't be offensive unless there's an infection going on, she doesn't practice good hygiene or you are a guy that just doesn't enjoy the taste and scent.

davex 04/01/2011

OK let's assume it's me. I've given plenty of oral before without issue and many satisfied women but as I said the amount of fluid produced in this case is very high which to me seems to be the major difference. I don't think she has an infection. So, short of turning off my tastebuds and my nose, is there anything anyone can suggest that I might try? I'd prefer not to just write the whole thing off as my problem or her problem. It is relatively early on, so yeah it's also a bit difficult to bring up in casual conversation with her at this point as well.

deleted_user 04/01/2011

tell her to eat some pineapple and celery

deleted_user 04/02/2011

Gawd, Mobi, he said FLUID...

EEEWWWWW!

Brings to mind The One Who Got Away... Copious moisture, but it smelled and tasted delicious, could have drank it by the cupful. I've noticed that ethnic origins seem to vary the taste and smell, but if it's that unpleasant there must be something wrong going on down there.

Chuck2004 04/02/2011

Have you talked to her about it? There are flavors and a towel might help...

deleted_user 04/02/2011

Besides having some tissues or a small towel handy to wipe up the excess and/or use some flavored lubes, I don't know what to tell you.

It sounds like I'm much like the woman you're seeing, I get soaked very fast, dripping down my thighs soaked, if I'm fully clothed and he arouses me, I'm soaked right through my panties and my jeans will be soaked but it was never a problem for my stbxh and it's not a problem for my partner, it's a huge turn-on for him when he sees how wet I am and can't wait to go downtown. I've also tasted myself many times and the scent/taste when I'm super wet isn't any different than when I'm not quite as wet and it's not overpowering or stronger, there's just more of it.

All women have a different scent and taste that is unique to her and the same with the taste of men's semen, what she eats/drinks, medications, how hydrated she is, etc. can affect the taste and scent. It might just be that her scent/taste is one that is just not appealing to you.

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