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Does she like me????

lovelost74
lovelost74
How do women let a man know that they are interested in them? Sounds silly for a 38 year old guy to be asking this but I have been with my stbx for 15 years. In that time I never thought about other women and would never even think about it if they were interested so I guess I kind of trained myself to ignore it. So I am not sure I would even know if someone was interested unless they came up to me and asked me out.
itson
itson
Step up and ask her out for a cup of coffee or dinner. She will let ya know quick if she is interested or not. Make the first move.
MsViv
MsViv
If someone is interested, you will know, she will be all in your face until she gets your attention...
deleted_user
deleted_user
I agree with Itson and MsViv, if she's interested you'll most likely know it unless she's really shy. Ask her out for coffee, dinner, lunch and you'll have your answer. For me, if I'm interested in someone, I let them know.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Absolutely ask her out!
lovelost74
lovelost74
eyemobi that was f'ing funny but just to clarify: does she put it in or do I put it in?
OkieMan
OkieMan
Lost..., on the first date, you better let her put it in. After that, you get to call the "shots".
deleted_user
deleted_user
eyebomb - that is terrible! lol

Even if she is shy you should be able to tell if there is some interest on her part but you may never know if you do not ask her out. :)

Good luck

Kallie
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am a very hard person to read. I would honestly say that some of the clues I give are pretty obvious to me, but not to the other person. If you ask her to come hang out..and she drops everything to go..then ya! Also, you should be able to tell by the way her body language or the way she looks at you. I would just say..time will tell!!
holehearted
holehearted
Not always Viv.

When I first asked my wife out she gave me NO signs she was interested, until I worked up the nerve to kiss her neck, etc....

The moaning gave it away at that point.
BrokenEye
BrokenEye
If you read the subtle clues correctly, those are a good indicator, EG if she says " F*ck of creep and die" that is a clue that she may not be that interested, so is throwing a can of gas over you. :-)
deleted_user
deleted_user
LOL @ Broken. I would say they are fairly good indications of whether or not she's interested. Throwing gas over him, that would depend on if she has matches or a lighter with her. Just gas could mean she loves the smell of gas and him smelling like gas is a turn-on to her.